According To Wes

Eggs, Chainsaws, & Gym Jitters 🎧

• Wes/DeLaw • Season 9 • Episode 4

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Balancing humor and honesty, this episode navigates the complexities of relationships and everyday challenges couples face. From a Valentine's Day spending spree to the tension surrounding gym friendships, discussions reveal insecurities, trust, and the journey of maintaining love amidst chaos.

• Valentine’s Day spending impacting relationships 
• Light-hearted conversations about raising chickens 
• Thoughts on flirty gym friendships and jealousy 
• Navigating trust and loyalty in marriage 

Wes:

Like I'm a firm believer of like yo, if I'm hanging out with the homies, the only reason my wife would be there is if they have their you know, their partners with them, their women with them. If it's just me and the homies, I'm sorry. Nah, it's just not gonna happen. Not gonna happen, everybody. Welcome to another episode of the Court in the West podcast.

DeLaw:

As always, we got D-Law here you have D-Law, the assistant coach of a team that gets blown up by 20. Jeez, louise, and you got me.

Wes:

And you got me Wes fresh off a spending spree on Valentine's Day, Like fresh, fresh, Very angry with myself, but hey, I'll maintain I'm not. Uh, I ain't doing strange shit for eggs yet, but uh, I'm close.

DeLaw:

I'm close.

Wes:

It was $6.99 yesterday I was like yo get the fuck out of here, man, $6.99.

DeLaw:

$6.99?.

Wes:

Hell yeah For like an 18.

DeLaw:

I went to. We went to Giant. That shit was $10.99. Oh yo, I told my wife we don't need no money. Yo Yo, we might as well go get one of those fertilized eggs from Trader Joe's.

Wes:

I'm going to go buy me a chicken. I'm going to go buy me a couple chickens. I don't know how you're supposed to keep them in the wintertime, but yo, that's what it's about to turn into. Go get me some chickens. Yeah, they're going to be out there, they're going to be in the back, listen.

DeLaw:

You thinking about it?

Wes:

No, I'm seriously thinking about it. The next goals for the homestead not the homestead but the house and shit probably widening the driveway in the back because I want another car and putting a fence Once that fence comes through. I ain't even got to talk my wife into some chickens. She's going to be like I'm not handling it. I'm like, fine, I'll buy me some chickens. They gonna give us a couple eggs a day and we gonna keep it pushing. I don't give a fuck what my neighbors got to say about oh the chickens loud, this, this and that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Because they play music all times of the day in the summertime when I'm working from home. So I don't wanna hear that shit. I'm letting them know subconsciously, quietly, but I will get loud now I'm buying them chickens. I don't want to hear shit. Motherfucker, yo, speaking of neighbors, fucking neighbor diagonally across from me for some reason at nine o'clock at night the other day, like just chainsawing and I'm like, is he cutting up about body over?

Wes:

there I'm talking about chainsawing. I'm like yo Like maybe in front of his house because it's, you know, diagonal from me, we in the living room watching, I feel, like on HGTV or something, just chainsawing away. I'm just like, yeah. So, yeah, I'm buying them chickens. Yeah, and I'm going to chickens. Yeah, and I'm gonna sell the eggs why not? All I gotta do is feed them, right, I think you gotta make a chicken coop for them.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I can do that. I can buy that from predators.

Wes:

I'm gonna have a fence at that time, that's not a problem. And the deer keep shitting in my yard.

DeLaw:

That's a thing too you gotta make sure that things are small enough where they won't go going through it or some predators get through there.

Wes:

You know what I'm saying? You got to feed them the chicken feed.

DeLaw:

You know, let them free range. You know, let them free range. They can't fly. So you know. And then, when you let them eat, turn around and say I'll get back in this chicken coop. What the hell wrong with that?

Wes:

I think I can handle that, and also I'm tired of the deer shitting in my yard Stone.

DeLaw:

Cold. Steve Austin has.

Wes:

it has some chickens, well, he also has a ranch, the Broken Saddle Ranch. He also has a ranch, and he has a cat that manages the ranch as well. Pancho, I think that's his name.

DeLaw:

But yeah, man, but that's Stone Cold Steve Austin, the baddest SOB in the world.

Wes:

Yeah, I had seen a clip where I had my undertaker fucking drinking wine and shit. She was just calling yeah, shit was just common Drinking wine. Yeah, on the podcast.

DeLaw:

Where did he drink wine? It might have been on the second episode. I know on his very first episode he had on the Broken Skull podcast he had the Undertaker and they were drinking Jack Daniels.

Wes:

Oh, they were definitely. This was a clip, but they were definitely drinking wine because he was saying something like they was definitely. Well, I didn't, I didn't, this was a clip, but they was definitely drinking wine because he was saying something like they was both swirling around and he was on like at legs.

DeLaw:

That was in that episode too, oh, okay. Like we were, because he was like yeah, you know, my wife got me drinking wine and so, you know, I think we're just supposed to pour it in the cup wine, and so you know I think we're just supposed to pour it in the cups for it around.

DeLaw:

And you know, and look, and both of them, as they were drinking a wine, looked like they wanted to chug it. Yeah, yeah, because if matter of fact wasn't the same, it might have been the second time he did. Uh, it might have been the second time that he uh had the undertaker on here, but it was. It was funny. They swirled around. I think my boy sent me the meme for it, that's, but it was funny, they swirling around. I think my boy sent me the meme for it, that's what it was. He sent me the meme. He said man, this is us now. We went from drinking tequila and Jack Daniels to swirling wine around in our cups.

Wes:

Oh no, the benefit of being getting older is you can do it all. You can appreciate the tequila and the Jack Daniels, but you can also appreciate the wine. When it's time for the wine, here I am drinking a fucking Heineken. I can appreciate it all, and I normally buy wine and vodka.

DeLaw:

I'm about to say Heineken. A 40 to 50-year-old man drink.

Wes:

Hey, I'm getting there. I am getting there. So how was Valentine's day for you?

DeLaw:

it was fine how was it?

Wes:

are your pockets, uh, are they?

DeLaw:

are they good? We won't talk about my pockets because she ain't paid for shit why not who else listen.

Wes:

We can't talk. We can't talk about our pockets. Why else? We might as well just talk about it amongst ourselves look, I ain't got no more pockets.

DeLaw:

Shit's ripped open. And she was like, oh, I'm going to buy his dinner tomorrow. So she brought his dinner yesterday and she was like yeah, I got you some Popeyes. Yo, that's it. You got me a five piece of Popeyes, that's some shit my wife would do.

Wes:

That's some shit my wife would do. I'm like, come on, man, what did I just go do?

DeLaw:

And you tell me what's on the fucking? Some Popeyes. I had a coupon for $10.99. And I was like, oh Lord, listen, she's like I'm broke because I paid for a cruise for myself and now I ain't got no money. I'm like why the fuck you pay for a cruise?

Wes:

for myself. And now I ain't got no money. I'm like why the fuck you pay for a cruise by yourself? Listen, this is what you should have hit her with. You knew what day Valentine's Day was coming. Because I got hit with that one time. You know, my birthday is the same day every year and I'm like you're right, I should have just had some money aside for whatever, whatever, whatever. My wife might never say that to me, but a woman has said that shit to me before. I'm like yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right. But, um, I should just off.

Wes:

The humble was, uh, it was decent, I ain't gonna lie. But it's just, you know, like your pay, your pay weeks kind of sometimes don't align for the stuff that you got planned and shit like that. And February is always tricky because it's kind of like you've been getting one in the beginning of the month. You know it's always the beginning and the very tail end or it's the. You kind of feel like you're getting two checks in the middle. That wasn't my situation beginning in the very end, that wasn't my situation Beginning in the very end of the month. I'm just like God damn man. So between mortgage and fucking dumbass eggs and shit and all the other shit that I want to do. I was just man.

Wes:

We went to Alamo Draft House in Crystal City. She ain't in Crystal City, she ain't never been. She ain't never been to like a movie theater I don't know the Draft House movie theater chain. And so she was ordering up a storm. You know what I mean. Like give me the loaded fries, give me this type of drink, let me get a. What the fuck? She order a burger, some other shit, this, this and that popcorn, and that shit was like 70. That whole day was 70 minus the gifts and shit. And I said a little prayer because we parking and shit. I'm already gone. And she was like what a valet parking closer to the. We had to walk. And shit, a valet parking close to the garage near the theater. And I'm like fuck. So me being me, I'm just trying to get there on time. So we walk like a block or two to the thing, cause I couldn't quite figure out where it was at. And she tells me that all last minute the garage.

Wes:

We in that shit say $20 for two hours. I said get the fuck out of here. So mad as shit, $20 for two hours. I said get the fuck out of here. So mad as shit already because I'm like, oh, this is about to be a $100 night and we ain't even done this is the beginning. I'm like fuck, so we get in there. True story we get in there, we sit down and shit.

Wes:

She ordered her shit and I was like Lord, please, let the fucking uh. I said Lord, please, let the uh, the gate be broken when we come back so I can just go through that bitch. I literally said that. My wife laughed and guess what happened? Lord bless me. Gate was fucking broken, but it was the gate to, you know, entry, not exit. It was not one gate to entry, not exit, it was not one gate. So I had to go hurry up and go through the entry gate because that was broken.

Wes:

I know people be mad around this time Like I'm not paying this shit. Somebody broke it. This shit was laying on the side. I'm like, bet we going through the entrance as I'm trying to go up the entrance, fucking Jeep comes down. I'm like, come on man, you see what I'm trying to do. He politely moves out. The way I get the fuck up out of there Saved me about $30 because we was there longer than two, two hours. So, hey, thanks to the man above, never doubt his blessings and his glory. Hallelujah, praise the Lord, thank you, jesus had a good night from that never doubt his blessings and his glory.

DeLaw:

Hallelujah, praise the lord.

Wes:

Thank you Jesus had a good night from that point on, yes, as I sip my beer. Yes, lord, so my pockets are. You know. I was able to save a little bit of money. I ain't mad at it. Well, you went to go get sushi yeah, she.

DeLaw:

Yeah, we went to go get sushi, that was. That was a struggle in itself because she got mad on Sunday no Monday, she canceled our original reservation. Then she canceled our summer reservations to wherever to Myrtle Beach, then got her. She's like I'm going on a solo cruise for my birthday. I'm just looking at her like okay.

Wes:

Like Royal Caribbean type cruise, yeah. I just looked at her like, okay, like Royal Caribbean type cruise, yeah.

DeLaw:

I just looked at her like okay, she's like you ain't bothering. I'm like how much did you spend? I mean like $1,200. And I'm just looking at her like clearly, you could have paid for our Valentine's anyway, right $1,200 off the.

DeLaw:

Humble. I'm like like I think she used her credit cards, so she was like so then it turned into oh well, you know, I just, I just kind of want to do a solo, a solo trip. I felt like the safest way to do it was going on a cruise. I'm like I'm pretty sure that's not the safest, but okay, whatever.

Wes:

But I'm like, so you get mad and book a cruise and you got mad at you and booked a cruise, or just got mad at life honestly, really, I think what she really, what it really was, was she just wanted to go on a trip by herself.

DeLaw:

She didn't want me to go with her. And and I'm like to me, I'm like I don't know why you want to go on a solo cruise. What are you going to drink more than normal, like because I ain't there? Then you're going to be like man, I'm bored. I mean me knowing my wife.

Wes:

She's going to be trying to contact you and call you and email you and text you and shit.

DeLaw:

Or text me all day. What you up to Nothing. Ain't you on a cruise? You want me to go? Bye, nigga. I mean it would have been funner if you were here, maybe it would have. But you got it. You decided to do something, whatever, because I knew for sure I wasn't about to do no cruise. That shit expensive and, depending on how you do it, if you don't go through the timeshare stuff we have, it ain't per person, it's not per room, it's per person. At that point, you know what I'm saying. Very true, you, you did all that well, and then I got a flight and I'm staying in tampa for one night and then I'm going to the crew. Okay, I guess you thought it was supposed to make me mad. I'm like you, burning your money and your time off.

Wes:

But what I'm hearing is that this is a blessing in disguise. It's time for you to go on an all-boys trip, all-guys trip? Yeah, sure, I want that. Mine don't either. But guess where we going? Guess where we're going. We're going to Columbia. We're going to Columbia. We're going to Columbia.

DeLaw:

That's an off-the-podcast. I can set that up. I said that's an off-the-podcast. Oh, yeah, it could be off the record. Look, if the women knew what happened in Columbia for real, we'd be divorced as soon as we say we're going.

Wes:

They know, they know, Listen, we can say we're going to Arkansas and they'd probably be like the fuck is in Arkansas.

DeLaw:

No matter what, it's the fact that we're going to Arkansas and they'd probably be like the fuck is in.

Wes:

Arkansas. It's the fact that we're going as a group. Can we set that up you?

DeLaw:

can set that up.

Wes:

I'm due for one of those anyway.

DeLaw:

The funny part is I don't think women understand how much fun guys have going on trips by themselves, like I was. Like if I went on a cruise by myself without my wife and all I had to do was and probably wouldn't get no excursions I got everything there, my drink thing, whatever I just go to the little floating bar at that point I'm just gonna stand in the bar chilling and get to the wake up. Shit man, like my wife, you know I was like, oh, like she. And then you know my wife, the paid person she is. Well, you know when. You know when we're leaving for Myrtle Beach, I'll just be getting back from my cruise. Okay, you gotta remind me every other day that you're going on a cruise.

Wes:

That sounds like you need to go ahead and you know me and Wes was talking and you know we could probably do a guys trip and this, this and that, and we're trying to decide where we're going to go. Don't even throw Columbia out there right away.

DeLaw:

Hey, look, if we were going to do any trip, I'd be like, I mean, I have to figure out how I will finesse the points. Oh no, I got another point. I could use points from somewhere else. Nah, we good. I'd be like, hey, wes. Look, look, I found out, all we need to pay is $400 for a week to go to this place. We just gotta pay for our airfare and shit, we out there, we out there, we out there, we out there, we out there.

DeLaw:

See my wife, she looking at our, she be looking at the Wyndham points, because that's the free shit. You know you put in some points and you know you don't pay nothing. But if I go use my RCI points through mass and nothing, I'd be like, hey, look, we can split that shit three ways. Me, you, me, you and D. $400 just for the place, even if it was somewhere close. Let's say we was like let's just go to Chicago. You know what I'm saying. I meet y'all up there. You know what I'm saying Get there. We split that three ways. We all came out of our pocket and bought $130 for a week. A week, A week.

Wes:

Easy money Shit, because all our extra curriculums and stuff is going to be when we're there. If we're going to go this place, that place, do this, this and that.

DeLaw:

You know us, we like to save money.

Wes:

Yeah, we ain't got to worry about wifey saying, oh, I want to do this or I want to do this quality of this. Wifey saying, oh, I want to do this or I want to do this quality of this, and you be like man I'm good with, just fucking go get in a fucking hamburger somewhere, just for some sustenance. Right, quick, like I ain't trying to. You know what I mean. Like it's just like.

DeLaw:

It be well, look at y'all drink All right. Well, I drink this, I drink this.

Wes:

All right, cool, everybody just bring whatever you want.

DeLaw:

Seven days, everybody bring two bottles and six bottles. We good If we got to buy another bottle while we down there. That's something different. We already started with six bottles for three niggas.

Wes:

Shit man Listen. Like I said, I'm overdue for mine.

DeLaw:

I figured out a way for us to finesse it, even if we were like, let's go to Panama or whatever, it still would only cost no more than $400 or $500 for the week. Anyway, it's just the flight. That is the kicker. I might not have to pay for my flight because I could do it through all my other shit, but as far as the place in general, I say not to try to get you in trouble.

Wes:

I say just float that idea out there and see what you say look, she will be all for it.

DeLaw:

She was blaming me the other day. She was like you told me to go get a life. I said I didn't tell you to go get no damn life, what you mean? You told her go get a life. I said I didn't tell you to go get no damn life. What truth made you? You told her go get a life. No, she thought that I was trying to get a life. I was like well, I said you moved all the way out to Laurel. When you left Bladesburg I was still in Prince George's County. So when I moved with you, I moved away from everybody, so I didn't have nothing to do. So when I moved with you, I moved away from everybody, so I didn't have nothing to do. So either I was going back down to Prince George's to go do shit Right, right, right, right or I didn't do shit. And so now we're out here in Glen Burnie and everything in Prince George's is closed down Like the Fridays the Applebee's, the Chili's, the On the Borders, All that shit closed down.

DeLaw:

Yeah, everything. The only thing thing that's out in Bowie now is Jerry's and Smokey Bones. I'm surprised. Have you ever?

Wes:

been to that new lounge that's sitting there. What lounge it's? By you?

DeLaw:

mean by the Walmart, that hookah lounge.

Wes:

That's what that is.

DeLaw:

That one over by the Walmart I don't frequent that area.

Wes:

I just seen the joint on Instagram.

DeLaw:

A little real that's a hookah lounge like the upscale hookah lounge.

Wes:

It's like an upscale. They were selling food.

DeLaw:

I don't even know if it's upscale, like so, if we're talking about the same place. So you know, in Bowie, where the food, where the giant is, and the Walmart, all that is, yeah, yeah, where the 7 and the Walmart, all that is when the 7-Eleven. Matter of fact, it used to be across the street from where the Applebee's was, and all that before they made it. There's a lounge over there, but it's like a hookah bar.

Wes:

When I went, through there that day. I thought it was where the Bowie Town Center was at and that shopping center.

DeLaw:

Oh, I don't know, it might be, you know what?

Wes:

Yeah, I don't either. I don't either. I don't know the activities, some of the activities and what comes with, like as a married man being out. It's not that I'm afraid of temptation, I don't, I'm not even actually afraid of temptation. It's the stupidness to come with it that I just be like you know what I mean, like I don't feel like doing this shit, you know what I mean, or whatever, whatever, whatever.

Wes:

So I ain't out there, I'm out there, and even though my wife be like yo go do this with blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, I'm like yo, none of the dudes I hang out with is on that type of time. Yeah, all of us collectively is like yo, we about living comfortably, our family providing and this, this, and that we definitely have our fun, but we don't have fun like we did in our early 20s and shit like that. That shit was dying down for me at 24. I was just like I'm done with this particular part of the nightlife shit and shit like that. That shit was dying down for me at 24. I was just like, oh, I'm done with this particular part of the nightlife shit.

DeLaw:

Hey look if we decide to really do a trip me, you, d and one other person I'm going to find us all inclusive. We might have to pay a little bit more money, but we ain't going to have to pay for shit else. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Wes:

Listen, I'm at the point in my life I don't mind. I said I don't mind, I know how to. I know how to entertain myself or keep me entertained with the having the pocket in mind. You know what I mean. My wife don't know how to do that. Everything inherently she chooses is expensive. She don't even know she choosing expensive shit. It just like I want to do that. I'll be like, well, I want this and I know the price. She don't know the price Because it might be like her first time doing something or you know what I mean Her just not knowing, but inherently she knows how to spend the most money ever, just what it is.

DeLaw:

See, I'm cheap. Even when we went to Panama and she was like, oh well, let's go on this excursion, I was like, why would I go on excursions?

Wes:

like excursions are cool as long as you ain't really doing too much.

DeLaw:

You know what I mean how much we pay for those excursions, I'm like, alright, it's one thing. If we were like, alright, let's, we're going to the excursion, we're meeting this person at this place and we're going to be trying different foods, in my head I'm like it's a food tour. This thing turned into let's walk all over Old Town, panama, for an hour and some change. Walking through a museum we might have got on the first one, we got some chocolate and coffee. Then we walked to another place where she got us a beer. We walked to another place where she got us ceviche. When we went to the fish market, got some ceviche. Then we walked around some more to a old chapel, church, museum, like where the Pope came, and all that shit. And then we went to this place that had some other food.

DeLaw:

She was like, okay, well, blah, blah, all right, cool, the second guy. He showed up late, so we went and got some ceviche from somewhere. So then he walked us to a museum. Then he walked us to a place to get a beer. Then he walked us and got museum. Then he wants us to a place to get a beer. Then he walks us and got us a cheese empanada. Then we just walking around the city, just just walking around, and eventually we stop at this one place, at this place that was like a little club and he's like this is where I bid you adieu and I will buy this and I will buy you a shot of Panamanian rum. I was like, okay, and that was it.

Wes:

So okay, that just sounds like a walking tour. That's fine, don't call it.

DeLaw:

It's not, that's what I'm saying. It was like, and see, I wasn't the one who looked at it, because I didn't look at the thing that said what they were going to do. I thought it was a food tour. We want to stop at least at five different places and get food, food Whatever. No, this turned into. Get 10,000 steps in one sitting.

Wes:

Listen ain't nothing wrong with that.

DeLaw:

I guess that's what was needed for the wife to not be like ready to roll after like three days. Because, honestly, I mean it was first off, it was all inclusive, and I'm like alright, cool, I mean I didn't pay for no drinks, I just had to give a tip, the food was included, everything was included. And she was like, well, yeah, when we were on the things, we weren't at the hotel the whole time. All we did was stay at the hotel. Then I would have been ready to go. I'm like, all right, whatever I said, that's how I know, dude, look, I ain't got to go into Panama City to do shit, especially if I was same old shit, all them same women that was in there. Don't let us go to St Thomas, man. Don't let us go to Aruba, man. Don't let us go to Columbia. And we were still single.

Wes:

I don't know. Luckily, our wives should be happy that we are married to them and we have more respect.

DeLaw:

I don't know. Luckily, our wives should be happy that we are married to them and we have more respect for our relationship and our marriage. But let us have been single. Them girlfriends would have been mad.

Wes:

You know how many times I think about like yo, if I was younger, if I was younger and single, with the money I'm making now, man, I'd be all types of fuck boy status man. It'll be so dangerous for other people. Let's just put it that way I will be dangerous for other people. There's a reason why it took me. It didn't take me a while, but it took the right amount of time, Like there was no, there was no shortcuts for me. It took the right amount of time to be where I'm at, because during my 20s, when I didn't really give a fuck about a lot of shit, oh, nah, Nah, nah, nah. I'm thankful for the journey. Literally, I'm thankful for the journey.

DeLaw:

If I was making anywhere close to what I was making when I first got to the government and I did it younger, like, let's say, I was still because the thing with me and my ex was it was like all right, so we want to get married, cool, well, how much do I need to be making for us to consider? She's like I think 50,000 is a good number. If you're making 50, I'm making 50. We could, we can make that work. Ok, cool, that sounds number like. If you're making 50, I'm making 50, we could, we can make that work. Okay, cool, that sounds good to me. You know, I mean, but I couldn't make the 50s and in my head I'm like what if I had made the 50? You know, let's say, let's say I got to where I'm at now, like almost 60, and me and her were together, back, still back together then would we have stayed together? I don't think so.

Wes:

I don't think so. I know, respectfully speaking, during that time I was dealing with like 20, 22, 23, 24 or whatever. If that would have happened to me, shorty would have just been stayed pregnant. That's just what it would have been, because I know her. She'd be like oh, this is quote, unquote. This is a good man, savannah. She would have been trying to lock my ass down like, nah, you not going nowhere, and that's what it's going to be.

DeLaw:

See, I would have if it was in my 20s, like when I was working for the feds, and I, let's say I was working for the feds, I was done cars, you know whatever, and I was with her More than likely. More than likely me and her possibly would have gotten married. I give that like a 90% chance. Now, part of me, honestly part of me, is like I don't know if I would have wanted to marry her, Only because of all the shit she had already put me through. And then you know how, like women only want to play the victim when they're a shitty person All the time.

Wes:

Yeah.

DeLaw:

So she was like I remember when she told me because I think I told you she cheated on me a couple of times I lied to you and in the scenario did I cheat on her. Of course I mean, she don't know that, but yeah, but she don't know that. Right she got caught and felt guilty. You know what I'm saying. I didn't feel guilty. And the funny part was someone was like why don't you feel guilty? I said, because she started it. You know what I'm saying? How we together.

Wes:

For two weeks you already cheated on me with your ex here's the thing when it comes to like cheating with guys, we feel guilty that we shouldn't probably be doing that to a woman that, uh, that's, that's, that's, you know, that has our best interest at heart, but at the same time, sometimes those women gotta understand that we use that for a mouth like I don't like her, I don't like her, I like her body, I don't like her. But I understand why they don't. You know, see that I'm not asking them to understand that it is. It is. But for the most part, for men, 99.9 percent of the time, it's like nah, you got I cheated and she got used for a, uh, a mouth. Uh, I don't even I don't know her color. I don't, I don't know, I don't know, don't even I don't know her favorite color.

DeLaw:

I don't know. I don't know.

Wes:

I don't know where she work at. I don't know her last name.

DeLaw:

She got used for a semen latrine is what she got used for.

Wes:

Respectfully, but not really respectfully, but I'm just saying that's how it is, yeah.

DeLaw:

But somebody asked me how can you feel guilty? I said, well, two weeks, since she cheated on me. Then I don't think I cheated on her during that portion. So she like broke up with me to go back to her ex-boyfriend. Then she was like, yeah, that whole time we were together, if he was at the house, honestly we were messing around. Or if I said I was at his house, we were messing around, and then I said, oh, that makes complete sense why he was like stalking your house every time I was there and asking what were we doing, and shit like that, I said, oh, okay. So when we got back together, I had no sort of like, uh, what's a good, not ill will. I had no sort of uh, I ain't giving a shit if I cheated on him. You had no sort of I didn't give a shit if I cheated on her, because I'm like you had no.

DeLaw:

I had no reason to still be honest and faithful. Okay, cool.

Wes:

So you ready to hear something that might ruin your mood?

DeLaw:

Hey, you know I'm always ready for mood ruiners. Should I get me another drink?

Wes:

I think you should.

DeLaw:

We'll get me another mini. I told you I started my mini bar, yeah, yeah, so I had to drink my big shit. I did find that bottle of blank. I told you about the bottle of blanks and, yeah, it cost me $109. And I might go get me another one this year.

Wes:

You said $900?. $900?

DeLaw:

$109.

Wes:

Oh, $109. I don't know where I get the $9 first from.

DeLaw:

This is some of the most nastiest vodka I've ever had Wheatly vodka. I tried to sip it.

Wes:

That shit was horrible. It was like drinking rubbing alcohol.

DeLaw:

If I've ever had rubbing alcohol, that's what that shit would taste like. It was that bad.

Wes:

Listen, they like look Wheatly gets the job done. It's a utility.

DeLaw:

Alcohol cleans wounds cleans wounds and everything. That is exactly what it did. Alright, so what about the ruin of mood that I had to give me some more? So I was on the internet.

Wes:

Right, I'm always on the internet. But I was on the internet, right, I'm always on the internet. But I was on. I was on reddit and this oldie but goodie throwback post came up and it was am I wrong to make my husband change his gym? And it's a whole story about how she feel like she can was. Am I wrong to make my husband change his gym? And it's a whole story about how she feel like she should be able to propose him changing the gym that he goes to. Wow, because too many bad bitches in there, hey, something like that. So it says I am 38. I'm a 38 female.

Wes:

I had a fight with my husband, who's 41, last week when I asked him to change his gym. He says he's not. It's not fair to him, but I told him it was important to me and he agreed. As the week has passed, I am not sure if I did the right thing and want to get a neutral opinion on this matter. We we have been married for 12 years and have two wonderful children, two wonderful kids.

Wes:

My husband and I were into fitness when we got married. However, life and kids happened and we slowly stopped going to the gym and gained weight. Two years ago my husband just woke up one day and told me he wants to start going to the gym again. He is very disciplined and not only did he lose all the excess weight, but he also started gaining ton a ton of muscle. As if the gym was not enough, he started doing crossfit six months ago. He goes to crossfit four times a week. He goes there early. He goes there early morning and is generally back before the kids are up. He made a lot of friends and he has generally been in a happy mood. I won't lie, but he looks amazing and I can't believe he still gives me butterflies even after 12 years of marriage. Two weeks ago, my husband decided to invite all his CrossFit friends for barbecue at our house.

DeLaw:

Uh-oh, that's where you fucked up at.

Wes:

Since the weather was getting nicer. He had around nine friends come over and it was my first time seeing this group of friends. I was mostly in the kitchen working in prep while he was grilling outside. Out of his friends group there were five girls and four guys and all are in amazing shape. Three of the girls joined me in the kitchen to help me when we're having a conversation. They were giving me a little hot tea about each other. I'm sorry they were giving me a little bit of hot tea about each of the guests in the backyard.

Wes:

From what I gathered, all the people in the group have been between the ages of 35 to 40 and all of them were single. One of the guys was married and the other three was. Another three were single. I was able to. I was asking them about their relationship status and I learned that many of the girls have slept with one, one or more of the guys. The three girls who were the three girls who were in the back, the three girls who were in the kitchen, told me that they were all divorced and not really looking for marriage or a long-term relationship. They commented on how guys at CrossFit are hot and discussing about each other and discussing about each other I'm sorry and discussing about how each of them was in bed. Funny stories. One of the girls asked me how I met my husband I'm sorry and discussing about how each of them was in bed. Funny stories.

Wes:

One of the girls asked me how I met my husband. They mostly wanted to know who approached who. I chased him. Um, hold on, sorry, uh, hold on, sorry, uh uh. Who chased him? Who chased who who? I chased him. And they were all commenting on how shy my husband is one of them. Let it slip that he is completely oblivious when someone flirts with him. I asked and learned that the two girls standing outside had at times tried to be very flirty with him as a fun competition to see when he will notice. They all said that it was just a prank and complimenting me on how awesome and loyal my husband is. Why y'all complimenting her? He needs to be complimented at the end of the night.

DeLaw:

You know what happened in that kitchen. Mrs Smith would have whooped their asses.

Wes:

The dog walked them at the end of the night.

Wes:

The dog walked the shit out of them. I was talking to my husband and told him about my conversation with the girls. He told me that these people are bonkers but they are fun to hang around at the gym. I asked him about the two girls. I asked him about if the two girls were really flirting with him. He said he didn't initially notice, but then it became too obvious and he thought that if he does not react then they will stop and move on to their next victim. This all made me very uneasy. It may be my insecurities about my own body, but I do not want these girls with amazing bodies flirting with my husband. I know he will.

DeLaw:

You know why she's all insecure? It's because she's probably a fat white lady that's sitting there home and going to the gym and them bitches probably bad as shit. White, nice ass body. She probably like you're going to leave me for one of these skinny and fit bitches, Probably so.

Wes:

I know he will never reciprocate, but I just don't like, I just don't think they are. I just don't think they are a good idea, but I just don't like, I just don't think they are. I just don't think they are a good idea. I talked about this with him and he, him and he and me that all he cared what Okay, good workout, blah, blah, blah. He's getting a good workout. All he cares is that he's getting a good workout.

Wes:

I guess he had a fight. We had a fight when I told him to stop being friends with these horny, single people or change the gym. He did not take it well and started resisting it. I eventually told him this is my red line and I don't and I do not want him to hang out with these girls who are single and ready to pounce on anybody with a hot body. We had a big fight but eventually he told me he would change the gym after a month, at the end of the month, and it would be super awkward to go to this gym and I'll suddenly stop interacting with people as I have calmed down, probably like weeks later I feel, I feel bad to make him do something that he might resent me for.

Wes:

Hence I wanted an objective opinion. Am I wrong to make my husband stop hanging out with these girls it's not just girls when I know for a fact that my husband will never be this loyal to me? I know it's my insecurities, but I just don't feel comfortable to have him around half-naked beautiful girls who will be ogling him and flirting with him as a game, even after knowing he has a wife and two kids.

DeLaw:

You know where she fucked up at. She should have took her roly-poly ass into the motherfucking gym too. Listen, yeah, yeah, don't complain about what you ain't willing to do.

Wes:

True, they have children, though.

DeLaw:

Guess what? There's been people that have been married 20, 30 years, that get divorced with children. Yeah, that's true, and I guarantee you the. Even though he chose to change gyms to keep the peace, he could have just been like I ain't changing gyms, okay, well, I'm leaving. And then guess what? Them same two in shape, good looking bitches would be been all on his dick. Probably together they probably had a threesome.

Wes:

Here's the thing. She definitely is wrong from trying to make him or she already made him switch gyms. My whole thing is, if that is the case and you know it's your insecurities what's wrong with him going to the gym? Right, and then you go to the gym and he stays at home and takes care of the children, so you get your shit back in order. I feel like he don't need to go to that gym for that to happen.

Wes:

He can go to Target and show that he's going to be in some yoga pants and this, this and that in a fucking training situation and stomach showing and she and this, this and that in a fucking training situation and stomach showing and she's like yo, you look good Like it's going to happen.

DeLaw:

She's insecure because she's with the women she's been cheated on and her eyes don't look good.

Wes:

I didn't hear that in that story. She didn't say she's been cheated on.

DeLaw:

She ain't been cheated on by him, she's been cheated on. Huh, she's been cheated on by other men. She didn't say that she didn't have to. You can hear it in the story. You can hear it in the story. You know what. You know that women who've been cheated on and it affected them are insecure. That there's other pretty women around no, no, no, women who know they bad. And there's other pretty women around know that they secure, that they man ain't going to do shit.

Wes:

See, here's where. Here's where I want to disagree with you. It don't matter, it don't matter if she's been cheated on or not. You know, if it's beautiful women and she feels that they are beautiful and one could be a little bit more beautiful to her, or she might got bigger tits or her toes might look better than mine, she's going to feel a certain type of way that doesn't it has. Cheating has nothing to do with it. She is this is don't fuck with my man vibes. That's what it is. You don't want nobody looking at him and that's why some women go for them ugly dudes thinking like, oh, they can't. Like we was just saying like you think I don't got no emotion. Like, yeah, I got you. What makes you think you are the you know, the benefit of the doubt or whatever. Whatever. Like I got something that women like because I got you.

DeLaw:

And this is why women shouldn't be left to their own devices in their mind, because clearly she look, she tripping, because, like it wasn't even that she didn't want him going to the gym, it was that he saw what was at the gym. So he changes gym and does CrossFit. How you know, he's not going to find two batter, james.

Wes:

No, he's already doing CrossFit. Yeah, he's going to go to another CrossFit gym and it's going to be the same thing. He might not be friends with them, but it's going to be the same thing, it's going to be the same thing.

DeLaw:

He's going to still invite them over. And where he fucked up at is.

Wes:

I'm not inviting four girls man. No, I ain't looking.

DeLaw:

The guys Chicks will be like oh, chicks who be like oh yeah, we gotta come to your house and I'll be at work. I'll be like well, I don't mind, but I gotta get you cleared by Mrs Smith. And if Mrs Smith says, no, I ain't having no bitches up in here, ain't no bitches up in here?

DeLaw:

The only way that you can get bitches up in here is if you come to the house and you say you with the nigga, that's here that I invited. That's the only way you coming in this motherfucker. That's the only way you coming in this motherfucker. Other than that, no, sir.

Wes:

Yeah, Because I kind of be the same way Like ain't no niggas coming over my door, Like who?

DeLaw:

the fuck I might be like. Oh, my friend coming over, my friend Dion, oh okay, and a whole nigga walking. Who the fuck is?

Wes:

Yeah.

DeLaw:

Or she's like can my friend Dion come through? Alright? Well, Dion, that's a chick, Nah, that's a dude. Hell, no.

Wes:

Yeah, he messed up by inviting a fucking woman over. I would never have done that and, um, I just would never have done it. That's just like yo. Like you know how you try, like as a man. Like what in a relationship in general? You just like yo, how do I stop future arguments? Well, how do I stop future? You know how? Like you, like you know, is innocent or whatever. But it's like I don't even feel like convincing my woman that this is innocent, cause she's not going to believe me. Well, I don't care, cause she's not going to believe me. Well, I don't care because she's not going to believe me.

Wes:

Like the whole flirting, like getting flirted with and him not knowing, that's something that me and my wife have not an argument but a conversation about all the time, because sometimes it's done right in front of her or in a weird way and I'm just like, hmm, you know, not paying attention and she knows I'm not paying attention and that's why I don't go. No, it don't go no further than that bitch was flirting with you and I'm like, huh, like, as you're explaining to me, I'm like I guess, but I'm like you see, the fuck, I got on like I ain't got nothing on that. That's a pill and she was like she liked what she saw and I'm like all right, man, I would have never done hell. Not fit women. You bring a fit single woman into your house, but then again it's kind of tricky too. Could you bring a fit single dudes in your house as well? They leave the house, don't come home. Take the kids to the park.

Wes:

I'm going to be entertaining the guys. I'm still not bringing them over. I'm entertaining the guys. You know this, this and that. I'm still not bringing them over. But I'm entertaining the guys. You know this, this and that, like. I'm a firm believer of, like yo, if I'm hanging out with the homies, the only reason my wife would be there is if they have their, you know, their partners with them, their women with them. If it's just me and the homies, I'm sorry, it's just not gonna happen. Not gonna happen, not gonna happen. But yeah, she wrong man.

Wes:

Listen the flirting the flirting can happen anywhere. That's just the first step of now. I don't want you going to that grocery store. I don't want you going to that Jiffy Lube or something stupid. You know what I mean. Like it start, that's how that shit starts. Change your gym. Change my gym. Like come on, man, the gym is full of hot people.

DeLaw:

That's just what it is.

Wes:

That is just what it is. And when I go to the gym, it gets even hotter. That is just what it is. There's no way. There's no way.

DeLaw:

Man, listen when way man man, man man.

Wes:

Miss Smith told you to do that. You think Miss Smith would ever ask you to do that?

DeLaw:

No, I mean she'd been to the gym when I was gone and seen the chicks in there. She is secure enough that she know I ain't going to do nothing crazy. Yeah, I'm going there getting my work out and I'm only.

Wes:

I'm only there for 30, 40 minutes I ain't like you're there longer than 40 minutes, man I'll be there for 30, 40 minutes and I'm out I roll.

Wes:

Oh my god, she know, she know I ain't ain't much, so much I'm gonna do in that time you know, I was telling my homie, like the gym I used to go to, like sometimes I'll be on a treadmill or an elliptical or whatever, like they lined up in front of each other. I was like the best motivation is when a big booty joint like, get up on that treadmill, start running. And that motherfucker, just like bow, bow, bow, bow, damn, they're clapping while she's running and shit. I'd be like God damn, let me turned this Pastor Troy down. I know I hear you, yo, it happens. Like what you want me to do, like what you want me to do.

Wes:

Hey, Yo, it be that way. But listen, the gym ain't him. Switching gyms ain't going to save you. Obviously, your mind is a good catch.

DeLaw:

Yeah, and obviously she need to get in the gym or do something to tighten it up.

Wes:

Yeah, because even if you on like, even if that was the case, like you feeling like, let's just say, the gym shit is an insecurity for her. Once you on level playing field with all the other fit bitches, they still gonna flirt like you on level playing field. So now you still got to stand out. Even you know what I mean.

DeLaw:

Because now you're going to have dudes flirting with you. So now?

Wes:

Nah, it's not even that. You on the level playing field with other women. That's not you being fit ain't going to stop them from doing that. That's what I'm getting at.

DeLaw:

They knew he was married. They just wanted to see if he was going to fuck around. That's probably why them bitches divorced.

Wes:

Might be, that might be.

DeLaw:

I asked my wife today it's off topic Most deaf or?

Wes:

child quality as a musician.

DeLaw:

Just well, I broke it down to as a pure lyricist. You know lyrics, no music, and it was their song qualities that they put out and then just when they're on tracks together, who was better? So it was three different things. So it was three different things. So I said most deaf lyrically is better than Talib Kweli, not by a large margin, but lyrically he's better. Now, as far as song music quality, talib Kweli, hands down, has some of the better songs. Like you can listen to more Talon Kweli songs than you could most deaf songs and not be like, all right, you're not. The song lyrically is good, but the beat Talon Kweli's beats that he gets they they just bring you in a little bit more. As far as them being on tracks together, whether it's on the most deaf track or Talon track or when they were Blackstar, I feel like Most Def ate them up every time, every time. But you can see that Most Def lyrically on tracks he can get it done. That's just me personally, yeah.

Wes:

I ain't gonna lie. I don't have an answer for that. I don't gonna lie. I don't have an answer for that. I don't know.

Wes:

I it's a tough one yeah and it's also one of those things where for me to accurately say anything to either one, I would have to listen. I would have to go back and listen to a lot. I haven't listened to either one. I would have to listen. I have to go back and listen to a lot. I haven't listened to either one of them in years. I'm not saying years, I mean years. It's kind of like me and Lupe. It's just the frame of mind or the frame of where I've been at, not in my life, but just in general. I have not listened to, I still got them in my phone or in the shit in the car and shit like that.

DeLaw:

I still listen to Lupe. I just got a Samurai album. His stuff is good. It's funny because when we went to go see we went to see Robert Glasper and Carmen and Lupe were put together Well last year and she was like, well, why do you like Lupe? I said I never really listened to Common. I think Common has hits and Common is good, common has bars.

DeLaw:

But I just feel like Lupe. I mean, even though Common is the bigger star, he's the bigger star because of what he's done and what he does on the movie screen and everything else and he's more of a recognizable face. He got the sound, he got the flow. He's good. But I feel like Lupe when it comes down to him, because there's two different generations of artists. Yeah, I feel like Lupe to me is has is a better lyric, not a better lyricist. He's not the better lyricist, he has the better songs. Because his songs they really do, they really drag you in. You can see the story in common. When he did stuff you could really see the story. But I think he's just a better lyricist, like he had a better flow, because he can't make out where you gotta compete with your flow. You don't compete with your song, you complete with your, you compete with your flow yeah, I've always felt that there's uh two different commons yeah, there definitely is, oh about doing after, yeah, I mean yes, yes, uh, yeah, I knew that.

Wes:

Um, so I I dibbled and dabbled in that after Erica, which was like B, the album, b onwards, and kind of dibbled and dabbled in before. So I've never really, from beginning to end, you know how you go through the whole discography and be like I can't pinpoint lyrics from Common. The only thing that I can't pinpoint lyrics from Common. The only thing that I can pinpoint and that's because this was a while ago that I was looking into this shit was when he was beefing with Ice Cube and I feel Common won that beef.

DeLaw:

He did.

Wes:

Yeah.

DeLaw:

I didn't know it was with Ice Cube. I thought it was with Mac 10. No, no, it was with Ice Cube, and Mac 10 in the them was like yo. When we see him it's on site. I remember that beef.

Wes:

Yeah, and it was just like the album I see the bitch in you. It was just kind of like, I mean the song I see the bitch in you.

DeLaw:

I was like. But also by that time Ice Cube wasn't that sensitive. No more, he was past his prime when NWA, no Vaseline type shit, you know what I'm saying. So Common got him on that one. He won that one. I mean, think about it Everyone, who you think would win the battle? Jay-z and Nas? You know what I'm saying. Jay-z came out smoking and then Nas shut it down. You know what I'm saying. Jay-z came out smoking and then Nas shut it down. You know what I mean. You kind of see, but you know, it's just really just a sport. That's why a lot of them are cool now. Ice Cube and Common are cool. They might not be kicking it next to each other, high, high hand, but you know they cool.

Wes:

They are kicking. You said Ice Cube and Common. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, probably you never know.

DeLaw:

Nah, because, matter of fact, the only reason I even remember the beef was because I had seen a snip with Fat Joe and Fat Joe said he was in the studio with Mac-10, and Common was coming to the same studio and Mac-10 was like, oh, that's that nigga Common. Nah, it's on site. Hell, yeah, we about to kill this nigga. And Fat Joe was like whoa, whoa, whoa Common. He said let me go talk first, so he go out there and tell Common, like you might not want to come in here because you know he was like well, I'm from Chicago, you know we get down. He's like look, just pack it up and go home, they might kill you.

Wes:

And he, fat Joe, got stories for days. Man.

DeLaw:

But that's how you know Fat Joe a real nigga. Fat Joe is the only nigga I keep forgetting that he's old.

Wes:

He's been around for a long ass time.

DeLaw:

When you started listening to Joe, Joe has started. Not Joe, but Fat Joe. When you started listening to Fat Joe, Fat Joe had been around 10 years at that point.

Wes:

Yeah, I think the first time I started listening to was Jealous One. Still Envy, yeah, or Jose, yeah, that was the first and I think he was already worried.

DeLaw:

He was already on because he did Jealous One Envy. He did Joe, then he did Jose. It was like two back-to-back albums and people didn't realize that when Pun came out, Pun didn't necessarily put Joe on the map. Joe was on the map hard in New York, but it just brought it to the forefront of everywhere else. There's Big Pun and Fat Joe, and now you know who Fat Joe is. Fat Joe is pretty much the king. I know you're a Drake fan. Now you know who Fat Joe is. Fat Joe is pretty much the king, you know. So I know you're a Drake fan. Did you hear Drake's new album?

Wes:

Yo Listen, yeah, I'm a Drake and Kendrick fan for the reasons that Kendrick stated Nah, no bullshit, no bullshit. I mean that's. I'm not even trying to be politically correct. The reason why I am a Drake fan is because some of the reasons that Kendrick stated Not the fake, tough shit, all the other shit. He makes good songs and even when he's rapping and it's just about regular shit, it'd be good. It's just kind of shit, it'd be good. Yeah, it was just kind of like. Um, like I was telling, I was telling somebody, I was like, uh, the album is dope, it is not what I expected.

DeLaw:

Uh, I think everybody expected a response.

Wes:

No, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't. He responded to some things and some songs, but I didn't, I actually didn't, I didn't, I didn't. He he responded to some things and some songs, but I didn't. I actually didn't expect a response. I expected a different type of production when it came from a P and D and the and the beat choice and shit. P and D to me sounded too much like future when it came to certain songs and I was like all right, because it was doing it. When I was listening to it I was like yo, I could see future P and D and Drake and like doing a group and just doing some stupid. Not some stupid shit, but some like other boy, fuck boy, type, you know, whatever, I'm partying type shit like that would be dope. But when I kept listening to it I was like all right, well, p and D not sounding like future. He's not doing auto tone like future. P&d not sounding like Future. He's not doing auto-tone like Future, but how he decides to I don't want to say sing, but rap and sing on these beats. It kind of reminds me of something that Future would do or could do.

Wes:

I did not like the production all too well. I didn't like the writing. It was Drake heavy and not necessarily P&D and Drake sharing, because if you listen to P&D's last album you had the stripper on the joint. I forget the name of the song. I mean, I forget the name of the album, but I feel like it should have been more P&D. It's too much Drake. They have to afford to be a joint album. Does that make sense? And it wasn't. And it was in the.

Wes:

It was kind of just in the vibe of like um like for little, like for teenage girls, like for college girls or whatever have you, even though he's still living that life of being in the club and this, this and that that nigga's our age. So it's kind of like at some point I'm not saying you got to sound like Chris Brown residuals, you know what I mean, I'm not saying that. But I was expecting, like yo, there is another limit, there's another height that you can reach, and it was like okay, this is how you do that same thing at my age and it resonates. I know it resonated with people. It just didn't resonate with me all too well, cause I'm not. You know what I mean. Like love is love and sex is sex, drugs is drugs. You know what I mean, but not the way that I do it.

DeLaw:

You know what I mean. See, I couldn't listen to the whole thing. So my thing is, I've never really been a Drake fan. Okay, I think I take Drake as a, like how Jay-Z said he made it a hot line, you made it a hot line, I made it a hot song. I kind of look at Drake in that way of like you got some hot bars some days, you got some hot bars some days, you got some hot songs some days. But really you just not. You just not my cup of tea. No, I get for real, for real you know what?

DeLaw:

I'm saying and you, you know you take some people's stuff and you make it sound a little better, but I'm not, I'm not, I don't like, really like too many singers unless you were single for real. Like I like trey songs he a singer. I like chris brown, you know he a singer. You know music soul child, he a singer. But it's kind of like how we said when um with chicks either you got to have bomb man's pussy or bomb man's head. You can't just be. I ate at both of them. That's how I feel drake is when it comes to his music. He I, he ain't really a singer. He I, he ain't really a singer. He ain't really a rapper, you just kind of in the middle.

Wes:

But neither is Future, and it works.

DeLaw:

No Future identifies as a rapper.

Wes:

He don't identify he ain't come out there.

DeLaw:

If you're worried about where I've been or who I saw, he ain't doing that. He might drag his words out and say, but he's still rapping. You know what I'm saying. But don't worry, I got Drake's songs that started from the bottom. Hey, I fucks with that. Zero to 100. Yeah, I fuck with that. Jay Energy, I fucks with it. There's stuff I fuck with that he did. I'm like, yeah, nah, I cans with it. There's stuff I fuck with that he did. I'm like I can rock with this, because you actually got bars. It ain't tough guy bars, it ain't. I'm about to kill all these niggas in the game. You rapping Cool, I'm cool with that. Even when he was beefing with Meek Mill and he dropped back to back, I thought back to back was mediocre. I'm like, come on.

Wes:

Once Mill and he dropped Back to Back I thought Back to Back was mediocre. I'm like come on Once again with that whole beef. Every time I talked to somebody I was like he only won because Meek borderline retarded and wouldn't stay on Twitter. I stay firm to that because every other beef he kind of lost.

DeLaw:

Because everyone was like, oh no, drake won that. I said honestly, if you really look at the songs that were put out, so Drake really only put out one official diss song and that was back to back. Because I'm turnt up you couldn't tell if it was a diss or a lullaby, you didn't know what the fuck it was. And anybody in the game is thinking about it like why am I responding to that? Like I'm responding to what hell? Nah, get the fuck out of here. Now, when he did Back to Back and then he did, you know, then Meek Mill did the song where he had the little Undertaker thing in the front I was like, alright, you ain't focused, you're on tour and you're trying to put a song out. But when he put out Warpain.

Wes:

Yeah.

DeLaw:

Yeah, that is what you should have put out. That would would have ended all that, because that was a diss song. You went in and I was like, if you put these songs side by side, you know whatever Meek Mill, song-wise, won that. But because it took so long for him to get focused and actually do it, Drake walked away as the default winner. You know what I'm saying. And I was telling my wife. I said, even for the Super Bowl thing, I said you know, when you think about who would have really been the person who would have performed at the Super Bowl halftime show, Drake should not have taken the MC Shan approach.

DeLaw:

You know what I'm saying. How else do we know about KRS-One? Mc Shan had to respond, right, he had to respond. South Bronx, the bridge is over. Krs-one is now one of the best lyricists in the world. You know what I'm saying, One of the best artists in the world. At this point, All because somebody responded, All Drake had to do was just keep his mouth closed and we wouldn't be talking about no Super Bowl halftime performance at all. We might have seen Madonna. We might have actually saw Wayne.

Wes:

Nah, I think Wayne got a bigger issue. When I say bigger issue, probably just drugs.

DeLaw:

I don't think they thought he could keep it clean.

Wes:

Nah, I don't think that. I think Wayne has a drug problem.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I mean, the last time I seen Wayne, besides Louisiana, that was when the Hot Boys reunion. But when he was at WrestleMania he came out and did a milli for Jey Uso. Part of the song he didn't sing and he kind of missed some words. And and I'm like, let's say, lil Wayne did perform at the halftime show, which I wouldn't have been opposed to. I wouldn't have been opposed to, but it would have had to have been this thing like hey, wayne, look, I get it, you got about a million songs.

DeLaw:

You can't remember all the words, but we're going to need you to at least do about 70% of the words. It shouldn't be. You say about four words and then ten of them you don't know and the crowd's singing it. I get that. That word's good for an enclosed place where you know, everybody knows. But it's the Super Bowl. There's going to be a lot of white folk that don't know who the hell you are. There's going to be a lot of KKK motherfuckers looking at you like who the fuck is, looking at you like who the fuck is this nigga? You know what I'm saying. You need to say your words, you know.

DeLaw:

So, like I told my wife, I said the only reason Drake is up there, not Drake, that Kendrick Lamar is at the Super Bowl, is because Drake couldn't keep his mouth closed. He thought he could get away with saying what he did with Pusha T Meek Mill blah, blah, blah. And Kendrick gave him a warning. He said don't talk about my family, keep this shit on wax and keep the shit about the music, because I got my shit Now you got they. Not like us. You got to turn the TV off, you got to wobble up. You go out there. You say that he abused his wife, his wife's cheating, and all this other shit. He says oh Baby, I remember this.

Wes:

He says oh hey, drake, I heard you like him I think that was a highlight of the whole performance.

DeLaw:

Don't get me wrong. When I've gone back and looked at that performance and seen all this stuff even when it's the wrong and seen all this stuff, he went and said, wrong way, all this stuff in the crowd, the song, song ways and how it is the political behind it. But when he went up there and said, say Drake, with the smile on his face, I like it better never go to cell, block one.

DeLaw:

I would look in my head. I thought they were going to stop. Once he said hit the body like John Stockton and it has that little cut there. I'm like it's not going to say you got pop out as show niggas certified boogeyman, he ain't going to do all that, he's going to stop there and then he's going to go into TV or no. He kept going. I was like, oh, he's still going. And he said it. And then I'm like, wow, I wonder what the white motherfuckers think right now. I wonder what canadian thinks right now is damn, they talk he talking about drake on national tv.

DeLaw:

Like anyone who didn't know kendrick lamar that night or knew that that song was out or that he was saying this about drake. Whether you watch the grammars or not, they knew kendrick theyar. They know now Because that was broadcast across the world. Yeah, Because you got Americans across the whole world, so they're broadcasting it everywhere. So if you were living under a rock somewhere and you knew Kendrick Lamar, as you knew about the beef or you didn't, and you're just an older folk who didn't, who just don't got your ear to the streets, you found out. Then you know who he is now. Yeah, all I can do is if I was Kendrick. Thank you, drake, for not keeping your fucking mouth closed. You should delight Jake Cole and bow the fuck out.

Wes:

On that note, d-law's not going with his light-skinned brother, he's going against him.

DeLaw:

Hey look, he's not my light-skinned brother. He's from Canada, he's from Canada.

Wes:

Thank you everybody for tuning in.

DeLaw:

He's from Canada. He ain't my brother. See you next time. He's not my brother See you next time. He not like me.