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Risking It All For A Relationship

• Wes/DeLaw • Season 9 • Episode 7

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Tim Allen's transformation from cocaine dealer to Hollywood star reveals stark privilege in the justice system. His cooperation with authorities after being caught with 650 grams of cocaine led to multiple convictions while allowing him to avoid a life sentence and build a successful entertainment career.

• Tim Allen faced life imprisonment for cocaine trafficking before becoming a TV star
• The cocaine trade was once considered "a gentleman's game" with established codes
• Rising inflation and utility costs are creating financial pressure on households
• Open relationships often create imbalance and favor one partner over another
• The show "Medusa" depicts the complications of non-traditional relationship arrangements
• Setting personal boundaries is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships
• Work-life balance becomes especially challenging when financial obligations require long work hours
• Couples often struggle finding compromise between individual needs and togetherness


Wes:

I would say yo just lay in the bed until you fall asleep, but then you run the risk of falling asleep yourself. I've tried that numerous times. I'm not doing that no more. I personally do not do that no more.

DeLaw:

Oh, you're going to bed. Okay, where are you going? Downstairs, downstairs. Yeah, you better go to sleep. No, no, I'm up, I'm up, I'm up, don't let me fall asleep. If you guys tell me, don't let you fall asleep, go to bed, we'll still be married tomorrow.

Wes:

It's all right, everybody. Welcome back to another episode of the According to Wes podcast. As always we have.

DeLaw:

Yeah, lord, the irritated coach, because we don't ever get no good calls when we're away from home Playing basketball.

Wes:

Yeah me Wes Home improvement, Tim Allen. Good cause when we're away from home playing basketball. You got me Wes home improvement, tim Allen, minus the snitching minus the snitching you know that story right.

Wes:

So before he became Tim the two man, taylor motherfucker was dealing cocaine, so he was doing that right. And then he got caught up, goes in front of the judge, you know, pleading like yo, if you can give me a second chance, this, this and this Want to go on a comedy, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then ends up snitching Ooh, supplying on his plug and shit like that and he walked. Yeah, minus the snitching. Only a white man can do that in Detroit.

DeLaw:

I'm glad you snitched, but your career's gonna have to start in 10 years.

Wes:

Only a white man can do that in Detroit. I think it was Detroit that that happened. Let me look that up real quick because I might just be saying shit, but I'm pretty sure Tim Allen cocaine dealing. Let's see.

DeLaw:

Don't get us universal out here, because you know we don't want to get sued. We ain't got no money, Fuck.

Wes:

Tim Allen. I mean not fuck Tim Allen, but it's his life. If it happened, it happened. Boom, boom, boom. Here we go. I'm just trying to make sure it was Detroit. I know the story is real because I remember hearing it. I remember him being on TV. Yeah, it was Detroit. I remember him being on TV in an interview talking about it. The family moved to Detroit, michigan. His mother got remarried to her high school sweetheart Boom, boom, boom. Drug trafficking, cocaine dealer. You want to see his mugshot?

DeLaw:

Did he throw some gang signs?

Wes:

No, this is in the. It was caught at Kalamazoo Battle Creek International Airport in possession of 650 grams of cocaine 1.4 pounds. So here is the mugshot. Wow, that's your boy, that is.

DeLaw:

Tim VanTaylor Put the whole porn stash though.

Wes:

Yeah, he began dealing drugs two years after graduation. He was caught face serious prison time and, unfortunately for Allen, the state legislator had just passed a law that tied a life sentence to carry any conviction of selling that amount and I think he just snitched what set up. And I think he just snitched what's that up oh, I don't know what name who allegedly has been following amateur drug dealers for months that's the truth, therefore.

DeLaw:

Yeah, lucky someone with it. Yeah, yep, he facing life imprisonment.

Wes:

He pleaded guilty to drug trafficking and opted Lucky Samoan, yeah Yep, he faced life imprisonment. He pleaded guilty to drug trafficking and opted to provide the names of the dealers To authorities. In exchange for a lighter sentence, they allowed him to be sentenced In federal court rather than a state court, so that Michigan law could be ignored. Dun dun dun.

Wes:

That's real great as a future star, charmed a judge. Throughout the ordeal he told Allen that he expected him to be a very successful comedian. Fortunately, in the comedy world, being a snitch isn't a deal breaker. Nah, with his information he indicted. He helped indict 20 people in the drug trade and resulted in a conviction and sentencing of four major drug dealers. White boy Tim. White boy Tim, Telling you man.

DeLaw:

Tim the two-man. Taylor yeah, I didn't know he was out here snitching like that.

Wes:

Yeah, yeah, yeah boy, yeah, boy snitch, but that's neither here nor there. I forgot why that even came up. But yo, I'm out here, we out here, we out here that's crazy, tim the two man.

DeLaw:

Taylor, we out here. That's crazy. Oh yeah, it's crazy. Tim the two-man tailor, I would have never guessed it.

Wes:

I mean, I mean, why not Everybody got doing a little? Not everybody, but everybody got a pass.

DeLaw:

Yeah, Apparently a lot of them got cocaine passes.

Wes:

Yo cocaine, god dang, you just gonna get on a Listen if he wasn't being watched or set up by the undercover cop. That means he's been doing that for a long time. He's been taking a pound, flying that shit to wherever he need. Been doing that for a long time, like he's been taking a pound, flying that shit to wherever he needed to fly it to and then coming back Back. Then that just must have been. You know what I mean.

DeLaw:

Well, from what I hear From back then, they said it used to be a gentleman's game, so it was like a code that came with it. It wasn't all the killing and stuff they had. Oh yeah, of course it was cocaine, a lot of street level shit with the heroin and crack and all that. That's what we see now as far as an overview of the whole drug game in general. A lot of it. When it came to cocaine and moving it and stuff like that, a lot of old school was like, yeah, no, it was a gentleman's game. It was a gentleman's game. There was a code. You didn't just do this, you didn't just go and take over this, you sold what you sold, you do whatever. That's why a lot of them, when they got out, they knew how to store their money. They were good. They were good. I wouldn't change a bit of it because back then it wasn't you risking your life to do it. It's not like you're seeing a snowfall.

Wes:

What's more honorable in your opinion. This is on topic Selling cocaine or selling crack.

DeLaw:

Cocaine.

Wes:

Okay.

DeLaw:

I say that because recreation, that's your choice to put them rails in your nose.

Wes:

It's addictive, but it ain't.

DeLaw:

Yeah, it's addictive, it's crack it ain't crack, yeah, and a bunch of people oh, when I, if you do crack, you do coke, you don't get hooked. No, it's a recreational drug. People do it, you know, you do it every day. Yeah, you gonna get your whip dropped and all that. But if you do it casually, like at a party, here and there, you don't instantly. It's not like crack you instantly you addicted.

Wes:

That how it might take control of you Right.

DeLaw:

But like people that I know, like you know, I mean Big Nick's dead, but he said that when he was at Howard. He said they would all do a lot of drinking. But because you get hungry when you drink and they all you know the standard of beauty was being smaller they all do bumps of cocaine so that they wouldn't be hungry, no more.

Wes:

And then they said, they instantly would sober up and keep drinking.

DeLaw:

I'm like yo, that's some crazy. I can't have a night like that. Man like that. He said he had a lot of friends that uh had had their stomachs pumped because of uh alcohol poisoning. Yeah, stuff like that. Because you know it's like uh, pretty much it's like drinking on adderall. Adderall is pretty much just really sophisticated cocaine. It sobers you up instantly and you wide awake and ready.

Wes:

Yeah, some of that shit is like a molecule away from being an actual pair of coke, it changed some things within it. It wasn't like cocaine, but it comes from that. You know what I mean? It comes from that genealogy, I guess. But yeah, man, I've been on my DIY shit and I was cause, uh, you know, global warming is uh in effect and it's starting to feel a lot like uh we outside when I leave the house. After COVID is even, we're coming on the cusp of this shit being even more expensive. So I need to definitely double down and figure out some of the how I'm going to be social and have fun inside of the goddamn house. So I've been, you know, finishing up my my quote, unquote honey do list as far as, like, this need to be fixed, that need to be done, this need to be done, this need to be moved. Still ain't got no grill as far as like this need to be fixed.

Wes:

that need to be done. This need to be done. This need to be moved. Yeah, still ain't got no grill Fuckin' up on that, but I will buy one this year.

DeLaw:

Fuckin' up.

Wes:

Yeah, I am, I will buy one this year. Should have been that one. Yeah, the bar would be replenished, you know.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I got one bottle to add to my bar, so I did get a. I already told you, I got the Blantons and yeah, I just got a refill. I took some Basil Hayden to a party that's gone. I need my Basil Hayden now to get that back. It's not bad. Basil Hayden's price is going down a little bit. It's not $50 or more, it's more like $45.

Wes:

It ain't much better, but I just need to get my, because once I start to replenish that bar, just like you, it's probably going to last you about a couple years. Only because you don't drink that shit every day. Your everyday shit is like your. Okay, I bought a bottle of Tito's Now it might be a special Tito's in the bar. You just want some vodka. You know you're just getting a $20 bottle. You know what I mean $20 bottle of Tito's.

DeLaw:

Like $20 bottle. You know what I mean $20 bottle of Tito's. It ain't nothing crazy, unless some people come over and they start opening up bottles. I've been in that man Even today. I might not even drink today. Try to cut back on it a little bit, we'll see what happens.

Wes:

All I know is, like I said, I've been focusing on that and making sure I don't overspend Talking about eggs. We talked about all that other shit. We talked about groceries.

DeLaw:

When you said eggs were $8, I said, man, thank God, trader Joe's can only take one out the store, so the prices can stay at about $3.498,. I said, man, thank God, trader Joe's has a. You can only take one out the store, and so the price can stay at about $3.49. And I was like, yes, thank you.

Wes:

Yeah, people. Just I don't know I understand why just the bird food shit, but it's just.

DeLaw:

But you know that Trader Joe's, my mom, called me and told me Trader Joe's has fertilized eggs that you can hatch and get a chicken.

Wes:

For the Filipinos that like to eat them half mid. I forget what they call it, with the proper term that they call it, but they eat them like they eat it half grown and cook them and eat them. I forget what it's called. I think it's the Filipinos.

DeLaw:

They were like yeah, they got the eggs and you can hatch it, and the chicken, you just gotta raise it and it gives you an egg periodically.

Wes:

I was like oh, that's what you're getting there. Yeah, we were talking about yeah, yeah, yeah, I might have to look into that, but I just gotta figure out. Like I said, once the fence come in, once I put that fence in around the yard, I might have to look into keeping a chicken or two.

DeLaw:

Right, I might have to come to you and be like yo fam, you got any eggs today? Yeah, man, I got about four. I'll give you one Damn.

Wes:

Nah, I really, I'm really, I want to look into it. And I got the space for, like if it's outside, and I got to keep into it. And I got the space for I guess it's outside and I got to keep them. Like I could buy a shed, like my tools are going to the shed If they're going to stay in the shed or whatever I have you at night and I left them. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

DeLaw:

I got to really research, I mean chickens don't fly away, but you still got to keep them protected.

Wes:

No, no, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like how would I? What is the best way to do that? Because I don't mind doing the egg shit. That seems like the easiest thing to do in the city is have some chicken. I mean, I'm not in the city, but you get what I mean, Close to it enough. I seem like the easiest thing to do is to keep some chickens.

DeLaw:

Yeah.

Wes:

And grow some plants.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I mean, if you're into that stuff.

Wes:

I'm into saving money and eating healthy and prolonging my life, so yeah, you ain't got a lot of that man.

Wes:

We all know At some point in life we all used to indulge in planting plants. No, I plant plants, yeah. Yeah, I mean at some point that has been my life. I like planting plants. Now, do all of them make it? I'm on a good ratio. About 80% of my shit makes it. Sometimes the 20% is I fucked up something or I did a wrong ratio or something and it never recovered Like I put the plant in shock.

DeLaw:

But 80% of my shit. Oh, you put the plant in shock. Yeah, you but 80% of my shit. Oh, you put the plant in the shop. Yeah, you can do that.

Wes:

Yeah, 80% of my shit. Yeah, it's still here for like years so. But yeah, man definitely need to get a grill, especially on those days where you're running the AC all day and shit like that and don't want to use the. The utility is just crazy. Everything's up, everything's up.

DeLaw:

Yeah, utilities are pretty crazy right now. But somebody was telling me they said their BG&E went skyrocketing. I was like what? Yeah, that shit went up, up, up up. I'm like what the fuck is going on?

Wes:

It's going up, up, up, up up. Yeah, I think that shit is skyrocketing. I don't know if it's just one of those things where we notice it more when money is tight. No, no, no, Just when money to start for everybody.

DeLaw:

You know what I mean. It could be something like that. It might be. I mean, I don't know. It's a tough call because I felt like they've been creeping up. They've been creeping up for a while but I couldn't pinpoint exactly like they've really been creeping up. You know what I'm saying? Because I don't necessarily. I don't pay the BG. My wife does, so she'll be the one that has to tell me that it's creeping up and everything else. But I noticed like the internet bill's going up. I pay the internet and we used to pay 89 a month. We're now paying about 99 a month. I'm like yo, y'all went about ten dollars and literally we've been here what four years. Y'all go up ten dollars in four years, a little less than four years. I'm like yo, yeah, like what are y doing? Like, are y'all giving me faster internet or y'all just raising the price?

Wes:

I'm telling you the price of the service fees. Probably, like they throw on something like, oh, this is the fee for this, this and this, that's gone up, but not the price of their service. You know what I mean? I know it's not a service fee, not B service fee or maintenance fee or whatever. I mean. Right, because I know DC is notorious for like, let's just say they had Comcast or some shit like that. I forget what it's called, I forget the name of the fee, but dependent and it's a percentage of your bill. Some people paying $50 in a fee, just one fee, and that's not even for one fee, and that's not even for the service, and that's not even for the service. That's crazy. Yeah, listen, when stuff like this happens, it makes everybody want to do an audit of what they're paying for.

DeLaw:

I mean, because you know, that's what me and my wife do. What the hell are we paying? Because it's Cause, it's, it's, it's just, it's like it popped up on a soap critic and it was like almost like without warning a little bit, but with a warning. It's like almost without a warning but with a warning, like you know what I mean. Like all right, yeah, we got to get ready for this. And da, da, da da. You know it's like all right, cool, whatever, but yeah, it's just been going up, like everything has been going up. I'm like I don't get it.

Wes:

It's no, you get it. You know what they say. Not, you know what they say. Say so we're feeling it because inflation never really went down 100% and then grocery prices are up because of still inflation or they gouging. I'm gonna say they gouging. And then these terror shit is, you know, scaring all the companies and shit like that. So that's why I said this summertime, like the we outside shit, like yeah, it's coming to that time, you know, changing, season changing in this area, but how many people won't be outside doing what they did last year? I guarantee you a lot of them are just going into that doing it, because the five guys cost 20 for a burger and some fries. How you know much you doing on those bottomless mimosa brunches, you know what I mean them day parties.

DeLaw:

You got to budget that shit. What's a month? Maybe In April we're going bottomless mimosa, all right, so let's start putting money away for it. Well, I want to get put $10 away, alright, look, that means we might have to eat before we go, but we can get the bottomless mimosa while we're there. We'll get a thing of fries I put on our stuff.

Wes:

I'm just saying, you know, I'm just saying but yeah, man, it's just, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know nothing, no more. I'm living in the world like everybody else and trying to play the game the best way I can yeah, man, that's all you can do.

DeLaw:

what else is there to do is just play the game the best you can. I mean already you got people losing their jobs left and right and they were like, oh yeah, everything's going to be fine. Sleepy Joe's gone, now you got woke Trump.

Wes:

Listen fuck all that shit.

DeLaw:

I can't even blame that on on Biden and Trump.

Wes:

I blame that on everybody else that voted for the motherfucker listen, like I told, when my wife was talking about this shit I was like it's the government as a collective, because if things were wrong, nobody did anything to stop anybody so it's everybody's fault. We're stuck in the middle, you know I mean that's in the middle of all of it too yeah, that's how I uh, that's us, that's how, that's how I see it yo. So you was telling me before we uh recording, like the show that you was watching.

DeLaw:

Oh, medusa, medusa, yeah, man, man, man, hold up. It just lets me know that I ain't ready for no open relationship Now, mind you, the show is good. It's about corruption, about a woman who all of a sudden became the CEO of Medusa Corporation. Go on a little boat ride or boat trip. Boat explodes, they assume she's dead and she comes back with no memory. I think, honestly, she dies in the midst of all of it. Some lady comes and saves her, brings her back to life with some healing powers and shit like that, so a little mystical, but comes back and she's trying to figure out her life.

DeLaw:

Was I a bitch back when I was first here? Was I this, was I that? And so the main part, I was talking about that, you know the whole corruption bumping family trying to kill her. All this I wouldn't worry about it. It was a relationship between her and her husband, because she was like yeah, you know, I think she like came home with her husband and then his husband's girlfriend was like so she doesn't remember anything. Why don't you just tell her you guys got a divorce so we can be together? He's like I'm not about to do that. I love my wife and my daughter, the hell's wrong with you right and she's like so we just yeah.

DeLaw:

So eventually the wife's like, so well, before the accident, were we good? He's like, yeah, no, we were perfect. And she's like, why are you lying to me? I know you're lying. He said fine, we were in an open relationship. By your choice, you asked for it and we, you know, and before you, before your, you know your accident, we had pretty much said you know we were done with it. It's going to be me and you. That part he lied about. They didn't have that conversation.

DeLaw:

She was still being for the streets murder. So she starts getting these flashbacks of all this stuff and seeing part she was still being for the streets murder. So she starts getting these flashbacks of all this stuff and seeing part of her life and seeing people who were wrong and everything else. But she has a flashback of getting no, the dude. The husband has a flashback of when he was like walking around at his house and he sees his wife just getting hit from the back by some muscular black dude. Oh, that was a show, yo, yeah. And he looks over and he's like, oh shit, the wife looks over and she's like, don't worry about it, he doesn't mind, keep going Yo none of this is popular as fuck.

DeLaw:

You could see dude's face. The husband's face was like this bitch, you got somebody in my house. So he goes out to his brother, poo, and she comes down like you're not mad, are you? And he's like I didn't know, you had company. Oh, so she like starts unbuckling his pants and like giving him a handjob. Like I told you, you know we got an open relationship, so you should be out there doing something and you should bring back what you learned to me.

Wes:

No, no, no. You pimped me at this point. You pimped me yo.

DeLaw:

I mean I'm like yo, you were watching this with your wife. Yeah, I was watching it with my wife. There's so many sex scenes in his drink. I'm just like what the fuck? Like all right, whatever. So here's where it gets funny, because we don't know the stipulations of an open relationship. We know what an open relationship to us is If you fuck and you might have a little girlfriend on the side, but you don't bring no drama, no kids, nothing else to. So the wife pulls up on him, sees him at like a hotel, wherever he was fucking his little side.

DeLaw:

That I guess you can't really call a side, I guess his girlfriend and the chick getting smashed and she's like oh, I love you, I love you, and she's taking a video of it and she get mad, oh my other thing, my other thing.

Wes:

You, you know why you married me. My, that's what I do. I don't say that, first of all, that's some crazy shit, like I know. I said I'm bringing this into our relationship, but I need to see where I stand in this situation and don't worry about what I'm doing. But I need to see where I'm standing in this situation, like, come on now, brought somebody to the house and you following me, right?

DeLaw:

You follow me. You brought somebody to the house and you following me, right, you followed me and you brought somebody to the whole crib, like, come on, make that make sense. You broke the rules of it. You broke the rules. So the rules to the open relationship was you only can fuck the person once and you couldn't fall in love with her, which is a little easier said than done. But, like I told you, it favored only one of the genders. Now, mind you, in the anomaly of things, it could favor a man, but we'll just say this man, even though he had the money and a little bit of power, he wasn't just going to hit the bar and find a check to take home, unless it was a hooker. It's those circumstances where you can go out and you meet somebody and they're already a little drunk and you might could. It's not uncommon. It really favored her.

DeLaw:

She was like who initiated this open relationship? He said you did. You said you were tired. You know it's been 20 years, you want to try some new stuff and this, this and this, and you want to try to open relationship. It was on you. He said I wasn't for it, I wasn't opposed to, but to make you happy because I love you, I said, sure, why not? Yeah, I'm like nigga, my anxiety ain't built that way, because I already know my wife oh, I'm out, bye, see you. She come back like, oh Lord, I'm worn out, mind you. And they're still sleeping together too. So well, you know, let's say my wife come home, it's like damn, I'm worn out. Let's say that you're a huge hit in my heart. So yo, that's you know.

Wes:

That's why you, as a let's say, that's a huge amount of time. That's why, as a man, you don't put yourself in those types of situations. You just shouldn't. As an adult, you should not put yourself in those situations if you're not able to shut your mind off when your mind decides to wander around and start thinking about shit.

DeLaw:

My biggest thing is they didn't show any oil or anything or whatever. Wander around and start thinking about shit. My biggest thing is I wouldn't want it because they didn't show any or anything or whatever in this. But I know what comes with the territory they're going. You know the woman going to give some hands, the dude going to nick her down, she wants some more. Then your wife going hey, goodnight, babe, kiss you like, hold up what you got. Yeah, no, the downstream once in a morning.

Wes:

Then your wife comes home.

DeLaw:

Hey, goodnight babe kiss you like hold on, babe, what you got. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Wes:

No Oof goodness mine.

DeLaw:

That was a, that was the.

Wes:

uh, that was that that just reminded me of like a conversation I was having one of my own girls when I was uh, she was talking about um, the show married to medicine, and I used to watch that when it first came out, like way, way back in the day because I thought it would be something different, and it just ended up being another clone of uh, house, housewoods, of I mean housewives or whatever yeah, but long story short I was like I was telling her I'm like yo, as a man, you shouldn't even put yourself in a situation to be on a show like that, because any, any and everything can happen and you end up defending.

Wes:

You got to defend your wife at all costs, even if you don't even believe in the goddamn cause, but at home it's a little bit more easier to you know, kind of. You know, I mean, this is what you did, wrong, this, this and that now, as a man, you might be put in a situation where you do correct her at home. She don't want to be corrected in public. So you got to be on tv lying and not believe in a damn thing that you say, just the back of your wife, right? I was like nah, or you fighting some dude because she felt like she could talk to some guy any type of way, and you know what I mean. And then it went into a whole situation of, uh, it went to a whole situation of her telling about a scenario that happened and it was all based off of what, uh, what someone said to a man.

Wes:

And then the guy saying my wife can say whatever she want, or my girlfriend say whatever she want, and I was like a woman can't say whatever she wants to a man. He was like well, why not, I'm like? I was like because it's dangerous. So, like you don't know who you're talking to, men don't even say whatever they want to because there's the threat of like you don't even say whatever they want to up the minute, because there's the threat of like you don't have to fight this motherfucker. Not that I'm scared or not, that a person is scared, it's just like yo, if I got to get the Chick-fil-A to get my baby, some, you know my kids, some chicken fingers and shit like that. I say whatever I want to say to this dude and he ready to fight me. Now I'm probably not going to get that chick filet. I might go to jail because I might hurt him, I might die. You know what I mean. You just like.

DeLaw:

Might be a combination of a lot of things.

Wes:

A lot of things. So it's just like you can't just say you shouldn't just feel, like you could say whatever you want to say to people, and that's I was like as a man, like if you got a wife that feels that way, don't go on those shows. But hey, they on them shows. She do the well, y'all can handle it gracefully and classy and stuff like that. And I'm like, yeah, you could. There are some shows where you do see that. But the man in that situation should know his wife and know what type of situation she might get herself in. And if she ain't that type, don't go on that show my thing is about that is the perspective that they keep.

DeLaw:

They keep oh, you know, these are shows all right, cool. It's a show that is choreographed a little bit, but the reactions are real. Like when, uh, jim jones is uh with chrissy, hit that chick that said that she uh used to go when she came on there her, I think it was her and Yanni came on there, she was like, yeah, you know, like we're not gonna tell you what happens, but it's a show. Like they knew that, like me and Fab had messed around a little bit. So they said, yeah, at some point in the show you're gonna have to say that and you're gonna do it in such a setting and we're just gonna kind of let it go where it goes.

DeLaw:

Yeah, and I'm like I would hate to be on a show, especially like a show, where you know everybody. Yeah, okay, so we investigated and we saw that you used to mess with such and such, so they're married. You need you to tell everyone, needs you to kind of like, just kind of bring it up, just kind of like out the blue, like like just try to put it, make it seem as natural as possible, because you know at some point. He's going to talk about this situation, about this, and just slide it in there. We'll just see what happens.

DeLaw:

Like what? So you want me to get my ass kicked by this big military motherfucker just to be like, oh yeah, man, you know she used to do the same thing to me when she used to get me here, like what? Like you want me to get my ass kicked? Oh my God, you know what I'm saying. That's how I view these things. That's why I like watching the real House Husbands of Hollywood, because it made fun of it. You knew it wasn't real, but that's pretty much like. In my opinion, even though it went on. For however long it went on, it was like really just making fun of that. Yeah, I know, this ain't real. They're just scripting it, like anyone else.

Wes:

You think that show should come back?

DeLaw:

Real House Husbands. Honestly, I think all them shows should get off Now. Hear me out, so you get very few people who get on from those shows. K Michelle Cardi B.

Wes:

K Michelle was successful in her own right before that.

DeLaw:

Yeah, kind of. But it really propelled her career, it got her into the mainstream front. And then it's one thing if you're known, you're on an album but you've never been seen before. So now you get on this thing like I heard of that name. Now you're now a market. So now Rick Ross is like hey, I'm about to do a song that's about to hit the radio. You're going to be on it, I bet. Come to the studio. So now you become a name A, Cardi B. Who ever heard of Cardi B before? She said that the dude from who was that group? The group that guys from Pete Gunz or whatever? Huh, Was it Pete Gunz?

Wes:

Peter Gunz, yeah, and Lord Tariq.

DeLaw:

Yeah, so because he's on Love and Hip Hop right he was, I don't know, I haven't watched that.

Wes:

He was like yeah, he fucked.

DeLaw:

I fucked him. He paid me. Like why am I gonna fuck him? He's not gonna pay me? That was the clip that happened.

Wes:

Yeah, I don't remember any of that shit because I wasn't.

DeLaw:

I mean, you know, I'm not, yeah, I don't remember any of that shit.

Wes:

It was at a reunion show. I'm not a watcher, as you would say.

DeLaw:

But I saw the clip. I didn't see the actual reunion, but I saw the clip and I was like what the hell is this person? And then you don't know who this is and they play Kodak Yellow or Bodak, whatever Kodak Yellow.

Wes:

Yeah.

DeLaw:

And I'm like, wow, okay, well. And I'm like, wow, okay, well, that's your second one. But honestly, just take the show because, like all these people, oh, I'm a rapper, I'm this, like Carly Redd and Roshanna like, come on, you've been on these shows for how long and you still ain't made it mainstream. Like, come on, who was Roshanna from uh Love and Hip Hopanta? Roshanna I think that's what rashida, rashida, rashida, yeah, yeah no, rashida, rashida, um is the thing.

Wes:

Rashida is a lot older than what we uh, what we think, uh, very, very beautiful, I might uh add. But no, no, she's been on pastor troy's stuff, she's been on Ludacris stuff. I have some old, like old, albums of different artists and she's on it.

DeLaw:

So she has done her thing but what I'm saying is that everybody doesn't want to be like like cocaine from the west side or sugar free, where you ain't got no album. You just known for being the features in your voice. You know what I in your voice. You know what I'm saying yeah, you know what I'm saying.

DeLaw:

At some point you, you, you took on this role on loving hip-hop atlanta or loving hip-hop or real housewives or whatever, to kind of expand, expand your brand and be able to be marketable, to advance your career. If all you were going to do was stay on this show just to make this little bit of money you're making, when you could have made a whole lot more getting into that industry and going into real acting, being able to get money, to be able to put it somewhere, to double your dollars, then what you want it for, yeah, I'm not saying that they're not making their bread because they're living good.

DeLaw:

You know what I'm saying. But look at Jim Jones and Chrissy. Jim Jones was a name already and he was on there just to kind of, in my opinion, kind of re-get his career back on track, get a little bit of notability. And now they're off of there. He's making his music, he's investing in his stuff, he's going on tours. If you get that opportunity for that platform you better make it jump.

DeLaw:

You better make it jump. I don't care If every episode you're like I'm going to feature one of my songs from my new album and that joint hit so people can hear it. Now you got free radio, play on your TV show, somebody's going to hear it. Put it on the radio and there you go, like there's a way to work that platform and none of them are doing it right because I think they're just complacent with. I mean, mind you, I don't know the record industry and how rough and rugged it is, but looking at it from a press, somebody from the outside looking in, that if you have this platform and your, your songs are that good and if a dj picks it up, anybody picks up and starts playing it somewhere. That a record label or whatever or whoever ain't gonna be like, all right, look, this song is hot, we gotta, we gotta sign them. We gotta try and get an album out, we gotta, we gotta or this producer, my like, hey, we gotta, we gotta do a song with her. There's no way around it if you've got that hot song.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I mean bobby's murder. Yeah, all them youtube rappers. Who was that? Tyler Tyler? You know what I'm saying you got all these people who just had a hot song somewhere and now they made it and they didn't have the same exposure to people from love and hip hop. Yeah, I mean, she's a little older. She's a little older, I give her that, but for how young she looks, she can get away with it. I don't know about that, I think. So I think she can get away with it Now, but I will say that was back then. She ain't getting away with it now. They damn near half naked and what she probably rapping about, she ain't rapping about that same thing. She got lyric lyrics for real, yeah. Yeah, just trying to make a party track. But that's how you get into the industry. You make a party track, something that people can dance to, and then you can put out your real serious shit.

Wes:

You know what I'm saying, you know yeah so, yo, we were talking about the show Medusa, right, and when we were talking about it, I just so happened to come across this article. It's not even what we're talking about, but hey, since you were talking about Medusa and you know over relationships, I came across this article said 35 naughty slang terms from the world of kink explained. So we won't run through this 35, right quick, and we won't see if you know these.

Wes:

I can guarantee I don't know these shorts and I haven't looked at it. I just look at the, the, the headline and shit it's going to be a lot of these. I don't know either. I just found out what dogging is. I don't know what that is, but 24-7 is the first one 24-7?

DeLaw:

Mm-hmm, I don't know. I take 24-7 as always open.

Wes:

This is in a kinked context. 24-7 relationships allow participants to remain in their roles all the time. That's in addition to being submissive and bid. A sub may be submissive when it comes to everyday things like housework, non-sexual interactions with their dominant partner. So wait, first off, what is a kink? Just like a thing that kind of you get uh, that you get off on, basically oh okay, that's not the norm.

DeLaw:

Quote unquote so if I get off on on my wife cleaning yes, that's a kink of yours, yeah all right, I'm catching up. You know, uh, I'm almost 40, so you know these new terms.

Wes:

They come so quickly this is not the king, is not a new term. 24-7, all this shit is probably going to be new to me, and that might not even be a new term. It just might be one of those things where I'm not in that world and you know what I mean. So 24-7 is one. So let's just say if the guy was submissive and the wife was dominant, then you got to stay in that role 100% of the time. Now, depending on the type of dominant quote, if the roles are reversed, dominant woman she's gonna be, but like she's gonna be slapping them in the mouth. Because it seems like every time I see these little videos or whatever online, because you might see, like I seen a video on uh instagram where a dude was just walking around a walmart on all fours, didn't have a little gimp costume on or nothing, but but she had a leash on her At Walmart. So that's what I'm saying.

DeLaw:

So the next one is called Africa. Let me guess this is if you're not 24 hours and you stay too late and don't go home.

Wes:

Nah. So it says uh, sounds like cuddling. It is. That's what it says. It can be emotionally intense and recommended practice for engagement and its epic care. This may take many forms cuddling, talking, offering your seeing partner food or water, or seeing partner or otherwise helping them feel emotionally secure. Essentially, it's about remaining present and attentive to the needs present. I don't think that's a king. I think that's what you're supposed to do. You know what I mean. Yo, you want a sandwich Boom.

DeLaw:

Hey babe, we just finished. You want some aftercare?

Wes:

Hey, do that.

DeLaw:

Let me know what happens. What the hell is aftercare, nigga, after we had sex. I'm caring after care.

Wes:

Next one is bdsm. You know what that is. You said b what bdsm you know what that is?

DeLaw:

B-D-S-M. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Dick's Mom man.

Wes:

Yo, he said that Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, oh, you know what that means just from what I said.

DeLaw:

I know what it means, but I never heard the acronym.

Wes:

All right, this one's a little weird Blood play. Oh God, so period sex. No, cutting the skin in order to bleed, god damn, alright, period sex. The next one Brat and brat tamer. Is it rat and brat Brat Like B-R-A-T?

DeLaw:

Brat and brat.

Wes:

Uh, I don't know brats are typically bottoms who are not straightforwardly submissive. They enjoy being difficult, mischievous or otherwise challenging toward their doms, slash tops and forcing them into use the full extent of their strength or intensity to discipline the brat oh, so pretty much acting like a brat.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I've done that before where a chick's like a brat putting your head in the pillow, that's regular shit. I've done that before where a chick's like why you got your head up. Nah, put the right in the back of the neck and say don't move, and you die that might be called something else.

Wes:

We'll see. Abuse, yo CBT.

DeLaw:

CBT, cb, cbt, cbt, hmm, I don't know.

Wes:

Cock and ball torture. We're going to skip over that. Let's skip over that. You got that self-explanatory. We got CNC, cnc, cnc, cnc or CNT.

DeLaw:

Cnt cat nose cat CNC C-N-C, c-n-c or.

Wes:

C-N-T. C-n-t. Cat, nose cat. I don't know why I said nose. You said like scissor. That's not what I asked. I said C-N-C.

DeLaw:

Oh, because you said cat, nose, cat.

Wes:

No, that's not what it is.

DeLaw:

It's consensual, non-consent, consensual non consent, consensual non consent. So it's consensual that we're going to do this. There's no consent because I'm about to put it somewhere. You don't want it.

Wes:

Wow, it could be anything. I'm just doing whatever the fuck I want to do. But basically it's like encounters where participants act out violating scenes or behaviors with their partners, their, their pre-established consent and boundaries with. So it's more or less like I already know what you like and I'm just going. You heard what I said.

DeLaw:

Yeah, sounds like with me and my wife, I'd be like, hey, what's up your house at home? No, come on, let's do this real quick. Oh my gosh, you got a.

Wes:

DS, which is dominant submissive. You know what that is, this shit. This is where it kind of gets weird for me. You got dom pro dom. Dominatrix is a sex worker. This is where it kind of gets weird for me. You got Dom Pro Dom Dominatrix. There's a sex worker who provides kink-related services to clients. You know what that is? You got what? Damn. That's a weird one. I almost don't know what you want to say. Ddlg.

DeLaw:

DDLG.

Wes:

Yep, daddy, dom, little Girl. Oh, I'm just going to skip over that Dungeon. You can already guess what that is. I already know.

DeLaw:

Okay, e-stem, e STEM I checked the E-STEM in the teams. E-stem Yep.

Wes:

I checked the E-stem in the things Electrical stimulation. I don't know where your mind is at Sex.

DeLaw:

Edge play.

Wes:

Oh, I've seen that in blowjob porn Okay. Fend them, bend them over. No, fin, fin, fin vend them?

DeLaw:

uh, I don't know financial domination triple G. You just throw money at them and fuck them on the money.

Wes:

I see what this shit actually say. I'm just skipping over these bitches because it's like ugh, uh has become the popular 21st century and it's easier than ever to send other people money. Financial dons may engage and offend them remotely with subs or, I think, video calls, berating them and commanding them to send the money. You know, women are cleaning up, so basically it's like a woman calling you worthless piece of shit, whatever, whatever, whatever. Send me some money, bitch, and then they send the money. I need to do that. You want me doing that to dudes. You're not doing that to me.

DeLaw:

Nah, but you got to do it to the cougars, who won't give it to you. You got to be nice to them. So what I'm going to get from it sugar.

Wes:

I don't know. So you got triple G short for good. Giving and gain. What is this man? It describes an approach, typically to partner sex, where people prioritize being good a skill level, giving a generous lover and gain Exploration or experiment with partner's desires and fantasies. That ain't a kink Golden shower. You know what that is. Arkelium R limits, soft limits, meaning and boundaries that can be pushed against the right circumstances. We know that Impact play. You don't know what that is. It's not going to die to hit Boom On the ass.

DeLaw:

The ass, yeah uh, hard enough that your sack hits it's, it's the uh, their ass. That means you're getting in there nice and deep here's one.

Wes:

You probably heard munch um.

DeLaw:

Is that vaginal oral sex?

Wes:

m, mm-mm. Munches are a means of meeting up with the fellow kinky people from a given area in a distinctively non-sexual setting, often to share a meal. Hence the name.

DeLaw:

So go on a date. You know, these kinks sound like regular shit now Pegging.

Wes:

You know what that is? That's regular play, being spanked, shit like that. Play party, play together. It's not called an orgy. It's called a play party. No, it's called an orgy. Rack, consensual kink damn.

DeLaw:

So it's not a nice titties. No, it's not a nice titties, nah, it's not a nice rack Red, yellow, green Stoplight?

Wes:

Yeah, boundaries don't play Dominant shit. I almost said the wrong word Rigger and rope, bunny Rope, bondage, basically Roman shower. Whoa, what Was that shit? Nah, vomit Instead of pee Safe word. We know what that is.

DeLaw:

Seen. We know what that is. Is it vomit on their body? Or is it just like a chick trying to deep throat and they just so happen to vomit?

Wes:

Nah, I've caused that to happen before. I've had that. Yeah, that happened to me one time, it's like bitch.

DeLaw:

You got throw up on me. The fuck is wrong with you.

Wes:

Listen, there's a lot of them. Vanilla unicorn switch that's SC Safe's consensual. Unicorn switch that's SC Safe's consensual. All this stuff that seems like the same Splooshing. What do you think splooshing is? Splooshing? Yup? Cleaning their fucking? Nope. Smushing food items off one's body oh my God. Or other words, rubbing a spoon on another person Splooshing. I wouldn't mind a splooshing.

DeLaw:

Oh my gosh, I just need my born dog married life at this point, yo the sploosh might be.

Wes:

You know what I mean.

DeLaw:

Something y'all do that. Should have been my wife's mouth, man Eat that and gargle.

Wes:

No, no, sploosh. No, that's not what I said. It's food items, food items, food items, like you might throw a cupcake on her or some shit like that.

DeLaw:

Shit, shit, be mad, I ain't playing with her.

Wes:

Hey, y'all don't do it at home because y'all got to clean it up. Y'all do it in one of the timeshares. Man look.

DeLaw:

It costs too much money to be having just to be throwing food at each other.

Wes:

Yeah, you're right, man, who's spooching out here food products and shit. Yeah, man, I shared when he was telling me that when he saw my medusa and shit I was just like yo.

Wes:

I don't know man. I feel like a part of me feels like yo, not the kink shit, but people. I think sometimes people just be bored in life and they be looking for excitement and other uh avenues and they they bring people into the shit that they don't need to bring into the thing. Like that whole. Yo I want to open a marriage type shit. It's like yo come on, man. Because like think about it. She needed a hobby.

DeLaw:

Yeah, I get it. You're like, oh, it's been 20 years, I don't get it. I don't know, but you going to bring something else in?

Wes:

yo think about, think about, think about, think about, think about you playing 2k all day or whatever. Have you like? You got not all day, but you got your hobbies, you're doing your thing. The one thing you can't wait to do is just like all right, let me go upstairs or let me, you know, see what you're doing, and this, this and that some people and or women it's just more or less like they don't be doing nothing with their day they work, they watch TV, they be bored and they be bored thinking we're the cause of the boredom, or this, this and that, or we need to do more. You still do more and nothing happens. No, you a boring motherfucker. That's the issue.

DeLaw:

It's like oh, you don't want to hang out with me. You sit in bed watching TV. Am I just supposed, if I'm up here, I'm going to fall asleep right like when you're up here, yeah, like you don't, you know? Oh, you know, you don't want to spend no time with me.

DeLaw:

You're watching your TV show and you sleep, you're happy like she didn't go to bed till like 2 o'clock last night. I'm like so you're going to bed and watch this show? She's like why? I said it's a yes or no question. Why Is TV too loud? I said yes or no question. I'm like, well, I'm not really tired. I said, okay, that's fine, I get a blink. I go downstairs. She's like oh my lord, you need me to turn the, you know.

Wes:

I said no, you already do your thing, I'll move you down here.

DeLaw:

I'm like, you took a nap today. You know, from like 4 to 8 I didn't take no nap.

Wes:

You go out of weight don't you hate when your wife take a nap? Man?

DeLaw:

I'm like you go out of weight. I'm tired and you already woke me up once with like trying to pinch my nipple, so I'm trying. And you already woke me up once with like trying to pinch my nipple, so I'm going down like just off the humble, just like I want to see what he's doing like I'm just asleep. I'm like, what are you doing? I couldn't resist it. Like I'm going bye, like oh you're being dramatic? No, I'm not.

Wes:

I'm trying to sleep you know, anytime that, like my wife can't fall asleep or some shit like that, I'm knocked out. I usually random times. I just roll over and I just see the blue glow on her face from the phone and shit and her laughing cause all she's doing is looking at the reels and laughing all night. I'm like yo, you need to go to bed. I am, I am, I am, I am, I am. And I just hear her secretly like I'll just be, like I was, like your ass should never have took that goddamn nap.

DeLaw:

She'll get up and use the bathroom and then she can't go back to sleep and I'll be trying to explain to her. I said you went to bed at 9 o'clock. Yeah, you woke up at 3.30.

Wes:

That's a damn day and a half you're sleeping already good, yeah, you already did seven hours.

DeLaw:

You did about six, seven hours. Your body not letting you go back to sleep is his way of saying that you up, you up. If your body was still tired, you're going back to sleep, but you went to bed at nine. So that's 10, 11, 12, 1, 2, 3 that's six hours of sleep that's the minimum your body needs, your body ready to rock and roll now.

Wes:

Yeah my body be ready to rock and roll at six, giving it eight as a cherry on top, for real, for real.

DeLaw:

My body's ready to rock at 6 o'clock am every day. Oh man, when I go to sleep, I go to sleep and I wake up at 6 o'clock and I'm like alright, bro, do it?

Wes:

Speaking of sleep, this guy wants to know if he's the asshole for playing video games instead of going to bed.

DeLaw:

No, you didn't hear the story.

Wes:

I didn. No, you didn't hear the story. I need to hear the story. So this guy he's 26, his girlfriend's 25. They've been together for four and a half years. They're living together for three. They rarely fight in all and all. They have a good relationship, so good that he plans on proposing to her in a month or so. He says we spend a good amount of quality time together on a daily basis, watching our shows, shopping, anything else she wants to do, but the bulk of the pressure in regards to the time spent comes at night.

Wes:

Due to our financial situation, I have to work 60 plus hours a week in order to pay for our lifestyle, our mortgage, things for our dog, save up money for future children, etc. The problem lies with the fact that I work a normal monday through friday schedule, with a lot of the saturdays being mandatory ot, but I have weekends off when not. While she works Tuesday through Thursday God damn, that's not even a scare. She works Tuesday through Thursday and Sundays as a waitress until she finds a job to utilize her degree from college. Due to this, saturday nights are typically my only night to have a couple of hours to myself doing whatever. It is like I I, I mean it is I like to do. It is what I like to do while she sleeps in preparation for her work day. What I must have. Something, whatever it is, I like to do while she sleeps in preparation for her work day. Okay, whatever, usually just includes video games and a couple beers until I get tired and head to bed.

Wes:

She is always upset at the fact that I never go to bed, with her saying she has trouble sleeping alone, even though I'm just in the living room adjacent to our bedroom. The situation has been a consistent I'm sorry. The situation has been consistent. It has led to the has led to tonight, where we are going to, where we got into an argument where I decided to turn everything off and make it very apparent that she had gotten her way and I will just, and I would just go to bed with her, even though the two to four hours I spend is my only time I have to spend doing entirely what I want to do after every week of me consistently putting in 60 hours at work Damn, he's writing kind of crazy To provide the life that she wants.

Wes:

She got upset and called me an asshole for not wanting to lay with her while she sleeps. She got upset and called me an asshole for not wanting to lay with her while she sleeps and that she knows I will be upset if the shoe was on the other he won't. This is entirely false and I actually encourage her to do things she enjoys. If I go to bed throughout the week before her, I don't know. I guess I am just fed up with having the same bickering match every single week when I feel like she doesn't understand the stress I put myself under for her to have the majority of what she has. I know I don't have to do that, but I want to be able to provide that for her and wish she could appreciate that enough to understand I need a couple hours a week to decompress. I need a couple hours a day. But I also see, where she may feel upset, that I would rather spend my time doing anything else than with her, as I love her dearly.

DeLaw:

Sounds like a regular relationship. Hell yeah, yeah, it do so, no, don't blame her.

Wes:

I don't either. Actually, and this is just one of those things where it's just like yo, we've been together for three years, we've been together for four years, living together for three. Yo, I'm gonna need you to make a little bit more money so I can be. Well, that's not even. That's not even the issue. It's the fact that the mandatory overtime shit yeah, and he worked in 60 hours, 60 hours a week is a lot Usually work, you know that's, that's sheesh, you working too much.

DeLaw:

See, my thing is and the reason that I said what I said, like we just already spoke about, she works Tuesday, wednesday, thursday and Sunday being a server, right, mm-hmm. So Monday, friday, saturday and Tuesday. So Monday, friday, saturday she's just at home chilling. And she's chilling on the days where she's like, oh and Tuesday. So Monday, friday, saturday, she's just at home chilling. And she's chilling on the days where she's like, oh, what's the weekend? We should all just hang out. It's like, look, I just work Monday through Friday and then on Sunday I got mandatory overtime, so neither one of us home and you want to take the one day.

Wes:

Not Saturday mandatory OT oh, saturday. She works Tuesday through Thursday and on Sunday.

DeLaw:

You want to take the one time that I can relax and chill and do something for myself and you want to take that from me.

Wes:

My whole thing is yeah, that too. Now that I'm thinking about it, let's just say, hypothetically, he's given her that throughout the week. For myself and you want to take that from me my whole thing is yeah, that's who. And then I'm thinking about it, let's just say, hypothetically, he's giving her that throughout the week. Right, I can't have saturday. I can't have saturday because he clearly didn't say yeah, you gotta give me something like he said they fight every week. So that means they fight about the Saturday. Show your breath.

DeLaw:

Yeah, show your breath, I get it. I get the quality time thing I get the quality time, but also if I'm always at work and working because you're not bringing in enough money and I gotta fit the bill for everything. Look, I get it. You want to go do something. You want me to spend some money on you, but honestly, Saturday night.

Wes:

She don't want him to spend money on you, she just want him to be in the bed.

DeLaw:

I ain't getting in the bed. I need time to myself. Because, think of it this way I go to work Sunday through Friday or Monday through Saturday, whatever day it is, I get told what to do for eight hours.

Wes:

You're like. You ain't telling me what to do, motherfucker.

DeLaw:

I get home on those days, you telling me what you want me to do, I finally get a day to myself where I can look at a game, even though it's telling me what to do. It ain't telling me what to do, because I can do whatever I want to do. Now you want me to do what you want me to do and lay in the bed and do nothing but watch TV. You didn't even entice me with well, I'm going to come downstairs, I'm going to suck the shit out of your dick until you get off the game and then you're going to fuck my brains out when we get upstairs. You didn't entice me with something that might be like okay, alright, I can live with that. I want you to come get in the bed. What are we getting in the bed for? We doing something? Nah, I just want you to. Nah, you're good, I'll sit right here on this game what the fuck wrong with you?

Wes:

shoot, that's that I would. I would. I would say yo just lay in a bed until you fall asleep, but then you run the risk of falling asleep yourself. I've tried that numerous times. I'm not doing that, no more. I personally do not do that, no more.

DeLaw:

I'm like oh, you going to bed, okay. I personally do not do that no more. Oh, you're going to bed, okay. Where are you going? Downstairs, downstairs, yeah, go to sleep. No, no, I'm up, I'm up, I'm up, don't let me fall asleep. If you guys tell me don't let you fall asleep, clearly, go to go to bed, we'll still be married tomorrow, it's alright, but I mean, I don't want to be in here by myself.

DeLaw:

You've been in this room during the day by yourself. What is being in here at nighttime by yourself going to?

Wes:

do yeah.

DeLaw:

It's that shit that I've been like. Come on, Make it make sense.

Wes:

Yeah, I mean. Listen the way I see it. If you're working 60 plus hours a week in order to pay for the lifestyle that's the key thing Say hey, if you want more time with me, you have to allow me to have more time In order to get you with all these things. I have to do this Now. If you don't want to do this, if you don't want to work more or pick up some extra shifts as a waitress, then you're like this is what it's going to be. Yeah, there's no other way. Now. You either like me for me or like me for what I can provide. And her next choice and the next things that she say will determine if she likes him for him or she likes the fact that he can provide. And at that point the answer becomes something Y'all not even married. Y'all ain't got no kids.

DeLaw:

You 26, my boy, yeah, you got a full life.

Wes:

Eddie, she do too. You know what I mean. She'll bounce back.

DeLaw:

She can find her, somebody that goes to the bar to just want to crank her a couple of times.

Wes:

Or just go to bed when she's ready to go to bed. But at the same time I understand the sentiment. Like yo, I sleep so comfortably with you and I can't go to sleep on Saturdays when you are. I get that, but I feel like it should be a little bit more compassionate on her part. Like yo, you are, providing I can thug this out.

DeLaw:

I mean, that's just what's we're thinking for us at that point. Yeah, you know, it sounds good.

Wes:

What is it? Is it actually going to happen? Probably not. But that whole ultimatum of pick up more shifts, or let me do me what is the likelihood she'll pick up more shifts?

DeLaw:

She working four days already? Not likely, because she probably like her days off.

Wes:

Exactly so it seems like to me I might have got a little bit too much time on. It Goes back to me saying it'd just be. Nah, I'm just joking, but she, I mean I get it because I you know, my wife don't usually don't go to bed until I'm ready, and I was playing Call of Duty last night till like two, one o'clock in the morning. So I come upstairs, she's like you ready, you going to bed. I'm like, yeah, she's like all right, bet she's. You know, she heard TV ready to go to bed. So I literally, I literally understand that. But she got to understand the other side of that too.

DeLaw:

Yeah.

Wes:

My boy, you're not the asshole, she's just. She's stuck in her ways and being a brat. If she is a reasonable one and she loves you, you should be able to work that out really, really fast right really really fast but, but they also young, so I don't know.

DeLaw:

Yeah, they young, they got ways to go mm-hmm, what on that note?

Wes:

could've been worse? Huh, they got ways to go. Mm-hmm, what On that note? It could be worse. Huh, it could be worse. Fuck yeah, it could be worse On that note. I don't know. Don't move in with your girl. I don't know. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. If she the one for you, man, that shit should be resolved.

DeLaw:

Swift Shit.

Wes:

If she the one for you, I'm feeling like she not, but I don't know y'all, I don't know y'all, and I'm feeling like she not. Anyway, we thank everybody for tuning in and see you next time.